Should I be honest with girl about my tongue fetish or just not bother explaining it?

I'm not sure what to do as she is already all annoyed about this , she sort of knows I have an issue with this. I'm not exactly sure how she and her friends found out as I've never like done anything sexual with them or even made out with one. but I guess we spent enough time together and such they started to wonder. she already knows I like tongue piercings and always been really annoyed about that for some reason even though she herself has a bunch of piercings in belly and all over ears , she just doesn't seem to like that piercing. I just don't know how to explain the whole fetish or if I should just tell her straight up I'd enjoy getting sex from her this way. what annoys me as I'm pretty sure she and her gf's have done oral on guys before and wouldn't think much of doing it with a serious bf yet she's being all weird about this for some reason , to explain our relationship were friends who almost dated and still some attraction but we never like hooked up
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  • If you've not dated or hooked up yet, then don't. It'll just be weird.

    If you hook up and get oral, then still don't mention it. Leave that until you're comfortable with sexy times together, and even then and probably don't call it a "fetish" if you don't have to... if you can just say you like tongues, and oral that sounds way less creepy, I think.

    • Also while tongue piercings can be hot, there are negatives with that particular piercing that put some people off them, it's not a very practical place for a piercing except maybe for oral sex...

    • I know she has her belly , ears and tragus/cartilage piercings in ears , she has a number of piercings I know of , she got them at college sort of a cool thing to get or went through a wild phase. she actually showed me her belly button piercing once before but then got all freaked out that I liked it a little bit too much and I haven't seen it again since. I'm not sure what her issues with tongue piercing are exactly she never explained them to me but she's almost done school and realise it would of been more likely she got one during wild college years then get one as she's starting to look for a career so maybe not something she'd want now anyways

  • If u get oral from her, THEN mention it afterwards.

    U don't want to open up your "fetish box" too early and scare the girl off. :-P

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