Should I be mad?

[Sammie97]

So the guy I’ve been dealing with is 19 years older than me. I’ve been messing with him for 4 years. Since the beginning he has tried to have a 3 some. At the beginning of this year he attempted to set up a 3some with a woman he knows. The meeting went left really fast. When he introduced me to the woman he tells her my name and that I come over to give him a massage. I leave his place an we got into a really bad argument. I’ve told him I don’t want to do a 3some but every time he ignores everything I say. So last night he ask for a 3some again. I tell him I’m not interested and I think he should find someone whose into the same thing he’s into. Plus I didn’t like how he told the last woman I was his massage therapist knowing damn well we’ve been fucking for years. He tells me that he just wants double head and for his eyes to roll in the back of his head. I say oh so I don’t make your eyes roll in the back of your head when I give you head? He says yes you do but the 3some is a fantasy. He likes everything I do for him. I’m so over it. Would I be wrong if I just change my number and move on. We don’t want the same thing. I’m tired of him trying to convince me to do something I don’t want to do.

[Itsok2behapp-e]

Yes.

Would you be wrong to change your number, yes.

How many contacts have you got in your phone/how many friends, family, colleagues know your number?

Once you know the answer to that you'll realise it's easier to block his number and keep yours the same.

You don't want the aggravation of having to tell everyone you have a new number and consciously when you think about it, it'll always remind you of him so don't do it!

If you're ever in this situation again, don't keep quiet you tell that woman who you are and what you're worth!

You're young so learn from this and create the mess with the ones who appreciate you and allow you to be yourself, creative, spontaneous and regret free, right? Right!

PS Then take a deep breath and let go of this madness that you're feeling. It's not good for your wellbeing.

You owe it to yourself to deserve better. Now off you go and enjoy your new 'messy' adventures ;-)

[Sammie97]

Thank you for the encouragement

[Itsok2behapp-e]

You're welcome :-)

[Itsok2behapp-e]

Thank you for MHO :-)

[Iron_Man]

Please stay away from this man please he’s a immoral piece of garbage big-time he’s trying to corrupt you and turn You into a Bi sexual lesbian very bad person

[Sammie97]

Exactly, I told him over and over again I’m not into girls. I refuse to be turned out

[Iron_Man]

I’m proud of you you did an outstanding job You didn’t fold up under pressure

[Sammie97]

I honestly couldn’t it’s not me at all. I knew if I did it I would hate him forever. I’m really not into woman so the idea just grosses me out

[Iron_Man]

I’m very glad to hear that you did very well and that’s a good mark Towards women

[Sammie97]

Thank you

[Iron_Man]

You’re very welcome

[Iron_Man]

Thank you for most helpful award

[BeingAnzalKhan]

Age gap is not a big deal however the mental set up should be more focussing.
Simply, get out of this shit and try to get onto something which gives real happiness and not just the happiness for body.
Sex is part of life and its not the actual life. As per you statement your partner is more into this rather being bit sentimental or emotional.
Don't be just a toy, it's better to clear out your point and be specific about your future

[Sammie97]

I like how you break that down because that’s exactly how I feel. He makes my body happy not me.

[BeingAnzalKhan]

Yea.. But inside you there is a soul which requires a emotional and sentimental love.. make that clear and move on if require..

[integrale77]

It's a bit demanding for him to ask this mainly because it caters to him mainly.
He might think different if you say yes yo a 3some if it's with another man tell him you want to feel 2 cocks in you to make your eyes roll back with pleasure. See how he takes that 😉

[Sammie97]

Oh I have and he hates when I say I want a 3some with 2 guys.

[integrale77]

Sounds like a stalemate. I'd definatly say if he trys to spring a 3some on you again you need to walk away and make it clear to him that's what will happen. Only other thing you could do and obviously this would only work if your bi, you pay all the attention to the other girl and he gets no action out of it turn him into a cuck!

[1CentWorth]

yeah, go ahead and move on. he's just having a mid-life crisis.

[haremhan]

i think you should be try do threesome, im sure you will like so much.

[Sammie97]

I tried couldn’t do it it’s not me. I feel like 3 somes are for men and bi women to enjoy. I’m neither

[Juandre_Lombaard]

My opinion is just move on bc he will continue to ask for a 3 some