Should I be my gf's prey?

I'm kinda proud that with me my girlfriend changed from being rather shy to being rather confident. Now I often end up under her, let her pin me down. Recently, she said she feels like she was naturally superior to me, like a predator hunting down her prey, i. e. me, and that I can't do anything about it. I kinda agreed, and she asked whether it doesn't bother me that my own girlfriend overpowers and harasses me all the time. I said that if she was ok with that I'd happily accept my position.
She smiled and said that if I surrender she wouldn't have to kill and devour me, instead she could play with me like a cat with a mouse she's caught. This was all like just fooling around and pretty funny, actually. But then she grabbed my wrists a little tighter, and said that I could be her slave for the entire next weekend, allowed to do only what she says. I hestitated to say "YES YES PLEASE", even though my hormones wanted to. Instead I joked around like this sounds great but she cannot be serious, and in the end we did not really settle it.
Now I don't know whether she still wants it, or if she's ever been serious at all. I don't want to annoy her with such a submissive thing if she was just making fun. But somehow I'd really like to see what happens when she's officially and totally in charge for a few days (or even longer if it's as hot as it sounds lol). I really like to work for her ;) So what do I do? How can I bring it up again. Or shouldn't I?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Dafuq? Lol I guess it takes all kinds to make the world go round. Haha don't get me wrong, in the bedroom sometimes it's cool to have someone be in "control" but the "kill and devour" you part has me thrown. That's a bit much to me. But hey, if you're into it, go for it! Lol

    • Yea, it sounds a little ridiculous. And it was. Guess that doesn't come across, but till that point it was just silly fun and we were laughing all the time. The thing is that she suddenly became quite serious after that. I don't think she's really thinking about killing or eating me ;)

    • Lmao I'm literally cracking up laughing at this scenario. I don't know how I would've reacted to someone saying that though. It's one thing to be in control but to say stuff like that is a bit over the top for me and my liking. But, if you wanna experience it with her, don't be shy. She doesn't seem to be. Lol

    • She used to be, but no, she isn't shy any more, at least not around me. Thanks for sharing your opinion. Encourages me to go for it! I see that it sounds weird. Guess it was comedy of the situation. We're not THAT weird, actually, I guess... ;)

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Most Helpful Guys

  • It sounds like she's definitely into it but maybe she just respects you and doesn't want to push you too hard. You sound like a sub for sure and she is a Dom. Just talk to her about it and say you want to explore further. There will certainly be fun times to be had!

  • Just bring it up, she obviously wanted it so there's nothing to worry about.

    • It's probably as easy as this. But then, if I bring it up again, it's like admitting I kinda crave it because I still think about it and even ask for it. That will put me in quite a weak position in our relationship I guess ;)

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  • If you want to, ask her about it.

  • just ask her if she was serious about it.