I would say he's probably just interested in trying something casual. Probably just to try something new with his girlfriend. If he feels comfortable enough around you to ask you then that should be taken as a compliment, definitely. But if you're actually interested in him then I wouldn't recommend accepting. If you're not interested then it's ok just to say 'thank you for the offer but I don't think I'd feel comfortable' or something along those lines.
Having been part of the swingers world I know that he probably doesn't mean anything more than 'I get on well with you. you're open minded and good looking so if you felt like having a bit of fun with my girlfriend and I then the offer's there.' It's definitely not something to feel offended about. :)
Makes sense, but he doesn't have a girlfriend
Oh, sorry. I guess I misread your post. :) Same idea though. I think that if you like him you shouldn't accept because it's likely just for casual fun and it's very unlikely for that to lead to a relationship. :)
I agree, thank u!
Every guy wants a threesome, it's nothing personal.
But why he asked me specifically when he can have any girl. He has no problems getting girls.
Presumably because he likes you more than those other girls
Soo then why not a one on one with me and save the threesome action for the other girls?
if he's attractive, I'd be flattered. I'd pass, but still would be very flattered. (:
He is, he has to beat girls off with a stick... why would you be flattered?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Oh, I'm sure he's willing for a one-on-one bang session with you... on the side.
Yes, especially if you would want more than that. If you just want to be another conquest then be flattered and go for it.
Anyone wanting sex with me would not offend me. Not sure I would participate in a 3some though. No right or wrong answer for that, only you can decide.
Do you want to be a sex toy for him and his gf's entertainment?
The question shouldn't be should you be offended. The question should be are you offended? Does the idea of it turn you on or off? I could understand your concerns if you were in a relationship with him, but most couples I know pick a friend they trust to have a threesome with. If you do it, just make sure ground rules are set down and everyone follows them, whatever you and they wish them to be. I've had many threesomes so I don't see an issue here.
Yes, I see your point... I guess I'm a bit insulted that he feels he would need another woman besides me for our first time. I mean, shouldn't our first time together be just us? It makes me think he doesn't have the same feelings I have for him?
That's my read, too. You see him as more of a boyfriend and he sees you as a friend who might be willing to have sex with him and someone else. If you think you can't handle that, you might want to consider telling him you can't and why.
Yeah, your right :/
So many threesomes end with a split up as someone gets mad or jealious.
Right, I'm not dating him but the feelings I have I would prob drag the other girl out by her hair and lock the door lol
Lol. Yeah, not for me. I think it is better left as a fantasy.
You are have grown quite wise in your old age...;)
Be offended.
Just do it
Why? I would probably kick the other girl out of the room. haha
No, be grateful he trusts you enough and thinks you're pretty enough to join him and his girlfriend
He doesn't have a girlfriend...
you never know unless u do it. would it be a MMW or MMW is more likely that he likes u and wants to "share" u to brag. a MWW would be more of a hook up.
No, it would be a WMW
go for it. he might like u both but if u show him a better time then u might be good.
haha ok thanks :)
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