Should I be worried about my boyfriend's womanly side?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is a metrosexual man who likes fashion, shopping and getting his facial and body hair removed and his manicures/pedicures done. I also sometimes think he may have narcissism because of some of his behaviors and his lack of empathy.

He has a sissy boy fetish (he likes being dominated by me which i also enjoy) and he's into women fashion. Sometimes his womanly side shows up and he acts very softly and he wants me to fuck him. I told him that i'm ok with this fetish as long as it won't be a regular part of our sex life since to me it's just a fantasy and i'm attracted to his manly side. Should i be worried? Because i don't want him to dress up like a woman every time and expect me to dominate him. He's tested me about this fetish a few times to see my reaction and he also sends me woman clothes and asks my opinion about them. Last time i told him that i'm not attracted to women so i find this "role play game" fun only cuz i like dominating him but he likes being womanly and he also bought a lock for his penis and he wants me to lock him up so that he'll have to sit and pee like "a woman."

After he ejaculates he starts to act more manly and wants to be the dominant though. What should i do? He says he's discovered this womanly side of him with me but i dont want him to lose his masculine side. He sometimes says he wants to be a woman and i don't understand if he's being real or just joking or maybe testing me for my reaction.

[Jdjfjcjj]

fashion is not make him feminine automatically. Most guys dress like little boys. If he uses it for dressing in a manly adult style, that would be feminine right?

shopping, for what? If tech shit then that ain't feminine right?

facial and body hair removed, ok with you on this one

and his manicures/pedicures done.

Pedicures are not feminine and the massage feels nice. Manicures aren't necessarily either provided he isn't using polish

[Jdjfjcjj]

As for his fetishes, tell him to stop watching porn. Overtime his current interests stop giving him the same pleasure and it can morph to further and further taboo shit

[Jdjfjcjj]

Commenting as I'm reading this shit. The desire to be a woman part is pretty cut and dry. I think that's all you needed to include

[Asker]

He is metrosexual and most "masculine" men aren't into things that he is into. He says he sometimes wears woman clothes and looks at himself. He also once wanted to go out with me in woman clothes, wearing make up and a wig.

[Asker]

I know that he is feminine, I'm the one dating him. Most masculine men only shave their bodies and that's it. And he is getting laser hair removal and he told me he also wants to get rid of his beard completely but I told him not to do it.

[Asker]

The fetish has nothing to do with porn and he doesn't watch porn, plus someone has to dig deep to find such a porn video. You can't come across a sissy porn that easily unless you're searching for it.

[Jdjfjcjj]

Ill take your word that you and your sissy has figured that out already. So anyways you asked should you be worried, I mean do you want feminine dude or do you want someone with a little more body hair?

[Asker]

I dont mind the body hair, its up to him. Im ok both ways. I just find it weird that he sends me woman lingerie that he wants to wear. I never even wore one in front of him and he never wanted me to. Him wanting to wear it instead of wanting me to wear such revealing clothes is kinda weird. I dont know how to feel about it.

[28ouc]

I dont think most guys are going to joke about wanting to be a women. My opinion is he is being sincere about it most likely and he is probly not lying. Over time he will most likely experiment more and more and who knows what could happen. Best of luck

[cyclist89]

If you are the dominant then you decide.

Instead of woman cloths buy him made for less manly man. They even make pantyhose for man and stockings

[tallblondejohm]

Only if he starts sucking dick

[Asker]

He sucked the dildo

[Anonymous]

No, not at all.

[Asker]

Why do you think so