Why would you worry about it? I mean other than porn not being healthy to watch in general but that’s another story. He told you why he’s doing it and what about that do you think should have you worried? My ex told me he used to go jerk off in the bathroom WHILE I WAS THERE lol to not get too horny and overly sexual all the time so we could actually do other things too or watch a full movie without it turning into a sex session. He told me he’d secretely even go and do it just before we had sex so he wouldn’t cum too fast.
Well I wanted to know what others had to say about it. And it’s before me and him actually do (stuff) so I think it’s a valid question to ask
That's not an actual bad plan to be honest to last longer because it does work, I know you don't mind if he doesn't last long but he does and wants to, you should appreciate that he care for you like that.
I know you don't want him to watch porn which is understandable because he's watching other females on screen doing stuff but but it is normal.
What you could do though that may help if the reason he does it is to last longer is before you both have sex, help him have a quick release. Then watch something on TV for about half an hour then have sex but I feel that will feel less spontaneous but just a thought
No. This is perfectly normal and nothing to be worried about. If you're going to ask someone to reveal something to you with no judgement... you kinda... gotta... not judge them... right?
I agree and I wasn’t judging him. I just wanted to make sure there was nothing wrong with it
Fair enough. The answer is, no. There really isn't anything wrong with it (and I'm overly sensitive to anything even a little sketchy. If there was anything like a red-flag there, I would tell you. But there isn't). 🙂
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You did the right thing. Is he jerking off to the porn before he comes over? maybe don't worry about how fast either of you finish just enjoy the experience and if needed go for round 2 or 3. Don't forget condoms every time!
Watching porn will damage him. That's what it's been designed to do in subtle ways. It's normalized so people don't detect the damage.
You could ask him why watching it keeps him from finishing fast with you.
You're taking this in the wrong direction.
He should definitely quit watching that fake, unrealistic crap called porn. If he doesn't he'll be wanting you to do all kinds of weird acts of sex that are fake and unrealistic.
Its nice that you talked to him about that ,, some guys lots of guys finish way to fast and most woman dont get what they need so it makes sense that he would do that for you,, I learned over time with my x ,, that i could control how fast I came , because we only made love or had sex, 5 or 6 times a year ,, I wanted it to last,,
Don't be worried he just doesn't want to be full of sperm so if he cums in you without a condom or using the pull out method and doesn't take it out time there is a less chance you get pregnant. He just want to make sure your fully sastified and don't want to cum to fast and before you.
Maybe he is concerned with cumming too soon with you so he masturbates before seeing you. Talk through it and let him know that you'd rather have him cum to you. Best of luck! DM always open
Yes and no
So he will last longer with you
You stop him, or give him full satisfaction
Not at all just be prepared to get pounded
So you said no judgement but then asked him to stop.
does he ask you to stop your natural mental fantasy?
does he ask you to stop reading smut garbage like 50 shades or watching trashy romcoms, chick flicks, and other female trash?
No, I guarantee that he does not.
Your fantasy is mental and about romance, love, feelings, and sex… the most common female fantasy is being force fucked by a stranger.(70% of all women)… yet if he asked you to stop, you know it would be impossible, and wrong/abusive. Yet you are (like most women) completely ok trying to force a man to stop his natural visual fantasy as if it were any different than asking you to stop yours.
It is just as controlling and abusive.
Okay I completely disagree with everything that you just said. I never told him to completely stop I told him to try to. And honestly us being Christian is a good enough reason to stop. So please don’t just say I’m like every other female when it comes to this stuff.
As a female I expected you to disagree. Most women can’t understand the basic principles of male/female differences and the logic of how things aren’t “wrong” just because they are not how your gender works. You being religious, doesn’t stop you from having mental fantasies and you know what happens when religions try and suppress NATURAL human traits and urges…. “Josh douger” happens. Church molesting happens.
Okay, I just want to say from my point of view me talking to him was probably the best thing I could have done. I’m glad he told me and he also told me that he was trying to quit so as far as me trying to also encourage him to stop does not make me a bad guy. I don’t know why you put women in a bubble. I know people do it if they have had bad experiences. If this is the case then best of luck to you. And me being religious does stop having those mental Fantasies. Doesn’t stop everyone, but my mind isn’t circling around sex. I could just say that’s a guy thing like you’re doing for women but I’m not gonna put your gender in a bubble.
He wanna cum before date u
To not be horny with u
I think
I would be more worried about where your parents are?
I set my birthday up weird I’m 19
It that case you should talk to him about it.
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