Should I break up with this rich old guy that I am dating?

[akagoddesss]

He keeps bringing his best friend over to have threesome, i have already done it with them twice. He is a good guy, his friend is not, but he doesn't understand 😓

[rose004b]

From the way you asked your question, it sounds like you're in it for the money. Are you willing to do anything for money? How far are you willing to go? This is between you and your conscience. But one thing is for sure, you're "selling your soul to the devil" and you know it.

[akagoddesss]

It might have started like that but he is a good guy in general, but his best friend is the problem, but yeah i get your point, Thanks

[rose004b]

He doesn't sound like a good guy to me at all. He has the upper hand (something you're both fully aware of) because he can include whoever he wants whenever he wants into your sex life. It also sounds like you feel that you have to go along with it. I don't think this is healthy for you at all. I don't know what action you're going to take, but I wish you the best.

[akagoddesss]

thank you for your advice he does have an upper hand, yes. i need to think it through.

[Prettysammie]

It sounds like you’re not having fun. Anything is ok as long as you enjoy it and no one gets hurt. I’ve been with bad guys before. Bringing a pervy friend was the least of the things they were into. At some point you have to decide if it is something you want.

[AmeerX]

I think you should remain in the relationship. Why is his friend not good apart from threesome. You don't like threesome or just his friend
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[akagoddesss]

His friend is a pervert, I don't like him at all, threesome are not a problem

[AmeerX]

You should not Complain. You are doing it for him. He is your love so don't worry about getting a Prevert in bed with you

[akagoddesss]

i mean that is quite a different way of putting it, thanks

[AmeerX]

Welcome, are you a adult model?

[akagoddesss]

no no, I work as a waitress

[AmeerX]

Wow, how Did you agree to threesome? Would you mind telling me your story

[akagoddesss]

i didn't agree honestly, i said no when he asked me. we went to his home after the movie, we were getting cosy and his friend came to his house, i thought it might be for some work, i was in bed half naked. but i guess they had made a plan, so he came into the room and then my boyfriend said it was this one time thing only because his friend was lonely and what not.

[AmeerX]

You don't worry about him. You made two guys happy

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Wait... HE is letting his friend bang you, and the "friend" is the pervert? You need to reassess your life, like now.

[Losalt]

You say that his friend is a "pervert", how so?
Feel free to pm me if you don't feel comfortable saying it in public.

[akagoddesss]

You just know, I mean his looks and his touch is very pervy

[Losalt]

Hum... What do you feel that he's thinking and what are *you* thinking when you think he's perverted?

[OlderAndWiser]

Is the guy still giving you money or presents?

[akagoddesss]

he helps me with money sometimes, presents are on occasions only

[OlderAndWiser]

Why have you been dating him? How much older is he,?

[akagoddesss]

He is 48, his friend is 51. It started because i needed the money but now i care for him so i stayed

[0112358]

Have you even expressed that this friend isn’t a preferred threesome partner?

[Alexandrubaschet08]

You want money, now shut up and suck the D.
In you're boyfriend place i will not accept to say NO to something as long i drink a lot of money and oure age diference is big.
you're boyfriend is not stupit

[Browneye57]

And you're just a piece of meat, a warm place to put it. YOU my dear, are the fool.

[magiusX26]

either get him to respect you and your wishes, accept the current situation, or leave. the choice is yours. and you are the one who has to live with the decision.

[loveslongnails]

Tell him if he still wants to have YOU, he has to lose the friend when the two of you are together. Otherwise, you're out.

[akagoddesss]

i wish leaving him was that easy, but thanks for the advice

[loveslongnails]

What's the difficult part? Are you addicted to the money? Are you afraid of repercussions? Do you actually care about him? If he cares anything about YOU, he'll honor you request. Tell him you did the threesome to make him happy, but also tell him straight up " I don't like your friend. I don't want his dick in me". Just tell him.

[akagoddesss]

it is true he supports me but i also care about him, i think i have to let him go, because i have had this conversation after the first time, he said ok but brought his friend over again the next week.

[loveslongnails]

Give him one more conversation. Tell him the next time you bring him over, I'm leaving. I presume you don't even want to hang out with this friend even if there's no sex involved?

[akagoddesss]

Absolutely he is a pervert. I knew that the first time a met him. Let's see how it goes.

[loveslongnails]

There's only ONE way it "should" go... your way. Tell your guy you don't want to be around his friend, EVER, under any circumstances. No sex, no hanging out, nothing. That's gotta be your position.

[akagoddesss]

Yes i think you are right,

[akagoddesss]

maybe it is time, if it ends it ends

[loveslongnails]

Let me know how it goes, please.

[akagoddesss]

Absolutely thanks for your opinion ;)

[loveslongnails]

You're welcome.. my pleasure.

[jhnny1331]

No not yet squeeze him for what you can, hang on I'll help you...

[remembersid]

R u serious!!

[akagoddesss]

Why?

[remembersid]

I mean u call him good guy despite he bringing in his friend for threesome Are u into kind of open relationship or sex for money relationship

[akagoddesss]

Good guy as in he supports me and care about me but it's his best friend that is causing the problem

[akagoddesss]

he never says no to him

[remembersid]

Are I in a love relationship or sex relationship Do u think the guy loves u as a girlfriend or just likes having sex with u

[akagoddesss]

it's somewhere in between but not a typical love relationship

[remembersid]

Exactly... It seems to be at a point wherein probably you two are meeting each other's needs He is taking care of ur financial needs and u r taking care of his sexual needs So first of all, it's not a relationship as u said it to be Now... U need to take a decision that in return of the financial help (or whatever u call it) are u ready to be at service to his friend as well or not And that would answer!

[akagoddesss]

thanks for putting it, I think that is his perspective as well

[remembersid]

May I ask where r u from and would u like to chat up in dm

[akagoddesss]

USA, ok sure

[remembersid]

Msgd u

[Numbnuts89]

so are you with hi because he's rich?

[anudroid]

Do you even love him?

[akagoddesss]

I don't know but yeah i do care about him.

[anudroid]

But he doesn't

[akagoddesss]

i guess maybe

[anudroid]

Then why are you with him

[akagoddesss]

i supports me a lot i don't know he is a nice person overall

[Yellovv]

He is using you only for your pussy..

[Amadeus121]

Look in the mirror at ur eyes and ask yourself that then say I'm happy with this in my life. you will know the answer

[Anonymous]

Get on Dr. Phil or Jerry Springer

[magiusX26]

a crossover episode of both springer and phil

[Anonymous]

you’re in it for the money technically you’re purchased, he is treating you as such.

[akagoddesss]

🙄🙄

[Anonymous]

You should end that