Should I care that my best friends sleeps around alot?
she gets heart broken and sad when she meets a guy and sleeps with him too early and they dont reply.. but she does it all the time and always goes home with a different guy. i tell her to have standards because she a beautiful girl etc and to be careful. then she started crying last night because she thought i was judging her when really i was trying to be a good friend. should i not say anything from now on? i just dont like seeing her get hurt. a lot of guys like her but only for her body. i want her to find the right guy who doesn't want to use her for the night. also she's pretty lonely henced why she does that. im not slut shaming but it does get out of hand sometimes.
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11 17No need. She lost already her worth.
No good guy would like to be with such a girl.
No good guy wants to girlfriend a slut.
she is honestly the most beautiful girl I've ever seen too the sad part
Sadly no good guy would see anything physical like kissing or sex as special if she throws it around like this. The more she does casual the more value loses the act itself. Do you know how many people she slept with?
The amount of people a person has slept with does not determine their self worth at all. It's all about how a person reacts to it.
@sweetbaaby still, no good guy wants some gal who slept around because no sex with her will be special in any way cause she throw it around like its nothing. If sex with a girl ain't special it ain't worth. If sex is worthless in a relationship then so a big part of relationship -the intimacy, will be worthless. If such a big part of a relationship is worthless then why is the woman anything worth. Ah by the way the same goes for guys 😁.
I guess we will just have to agree to disagree 👌 not all people think that way
You are a good and kind friend! We should definitely care about our friends because that's what friends do. It's not your fault she took it the wrong way. She's probably a bit sensitive so when you give her your advice next time make it clear you aren't judging her. Maybe say something like "I don't want you to think I'm judging you dear but...".
You are a good friend! :)