Should I do a bikini pinup calendar?

I work for a small (bet getting bigger) private charter. Basically fly rich people around selected locations. My company I’ve worked for is doing a calendar of some of the girls and they picked me. If I want to! It’s not bad it’s a bikini pic I’ll wear a thong, a lingerie shot on an plane and a private lingerie/undies shot in a hotel room that lists things like sizes, measurements, turn on /offs, fav position it’s called laying over with (insert calendar girls name) it seems fun and they are flying us to Maldives 🇲🇻 to do the (shoot) different destination each trad! there would be 6 girls we each get 2 months! I am 39 and married with a son. It seems fun to me and my husband said if you want to go for it. My son who graduated high school in spring, said no until he found out he got to go to Maldives to with us. Then he was like yea sure do it. I feel nervous, I’m not 24 anymore, I’m a mom and a wife hiw will this affect them and I get boys are bits but are people going to be looking at my sexy pictures in my lingerie (something I wear for my husband in the bedroom) and doing weird/gross things while looking at my pictures? Basically the calendars are given out to the passengers. It seems fun but I’m worried about the consequences. What do you guys think?

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  • You do realize the market for these is mostly men? And the reason for this is because they get to ogle women? What else is the point of having photos of women in thong swimsuits and lingerie? Particularly if it has personal intimate details about you?

    The questions you have to answer are: why were you considering it? And are you okay with complete strangers having photos of you posing in a tiny bikini and/or your sexy underwear up on their wall for at least a month?

    Most guys are probably going to do no more than lust after you and think of you similar to how your husband does when he sees you undressed in only your lingerie. Knowing your measurements and what you like and don't like enables them to fantasize more about you. Some guys will be weird and yes they'll jack off looking at your pictures.

    It's up to you.

    • 🤮 why are some guys such pigs

    • Is it just that some guys might jack off from your photos that bothers you? Or the looking at you as well?

    • Yea that’s yucky

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  • in 10 years this will not be an option for you due to natural aging. If you do this it will be a great memory and while there might be some negatives they will likely be fleeting, not like this is going to be on CNBC for years on end, right? If you don't do this you have missed out on your moment of fame/greatness and you will regret it. If this was like "hardcore porn" my opinion would be different but this sounds classy enough and most people don't get these opportunities and you probably won't get another chance. Trust me I have some experience in this kind of space. Good luck

    • If I do this what do guys do with the pictures. Like I’ve heard all sorts of things. I don’t know if this is true but I’ve heard people tell me that guys will fantasize about another girl, like a pin up/swimsuit /lingerie model. While with their wife like pretending their wife is the model I don’t know if that’s true or not but If it is I don’t want to be a part of that that’s gross

    • if you left the house today your part of that. Sorry but guys jack off watching the news because they have a thing for that particular newscaster and all sorts of teenage boys get boners in class if they have a hot teacher. If your worried about that you better become a shut in. In all seriousness though, I don't think jacking off looking at calendars is very prevalent. the main outlet for that is internet porn now, but like I said, a dude sees some chick in the right sunlight and next thing you know he is fantasizing about her while banging his wife. It's how we're wired and women have some screwed up habits that are just as bad. I think this is not an issue unless you want it to be

    • I’m going to do it

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  • I'd personally say no.

    I'm all for doing what you want but I believe once you become a mother and a wife some of that stuff needs to be toned down in public. Secretly I'd bet your husband will be happier with you having turned down the offer rather then accept it.

    And of course, your son doesn't want to see that stuff.

    But ultimately, it's just a photo-shoot with a limited run. I doubt the house of cards will come crumbling down if you do decide to do it.

    • I was going to do it cause it sounded fun but the more I think about it the more I think I’m going to pass

  • Yes you should it’s an amazing opportunity and you will look amazing. Guys are gonna hawk at you in a tracksuit! Just do it it will be a blast

  • I'm surprise your hubby is so ho hum. Sure, go do some thong, lingerie, half naked photo shoot to appear in some calendar.

    There are more cucks in the world today than ever before though, so maybe I shouldn't be surprised that so many men have such cuck ways today.

  • Only you can decide if you have the body for it. If you do, I have no issue. Just nothing "porny".

  • If your husband is ok yeah.

    • He’s like if you want to do it, do it it’s up to me

    • To be honest I think the 'Laying over xxxx' is a little gross and somewhat passe but if you like the excitement of it... I just have some concern over the excitement/compliment side of things. A girl I knew was approached to do art photography modeling and she was really excited and complimented. Her eyes were bright she was so eager to get to the studio. She rethought it wrt the internet and asked for the pics to be turned over to her but was told they had the copyright. Your sit is very different but still the same in many respects. Assume the whole world see the pics. I'd just counsel not the to let the excitement/compliment to do your thinking for you is all.

  • It's your body. If you don't mind others seeing it go for it.

    • When guys, and single guys see pictures like that do they do weird things? Like what’s a guys reaction

    • I think most guys would just admire it. They may have some lustful thoughts. There are always going to be some that get weird.

    • 😳 that’s weird to me

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  • If you really comfortable then why not?

    If my girlfriend wish I will not stopped her.

  • I think if you introduce your son to some of the girls you're shooting with he'll totally feel better about it lol.

    Joking aside if you think you will have fun do it. You only live once.

    • I’ve decided to do it and yea my son wants to meet the other girls lol 😝

    • Well good for you and I hope you love it. Of course he does if he's just out of high school lol. It will be the highlight of his teenage life. At least he's out of highschool so it's not like he's a 11 lol.

    • He'll probably want a copy of the calendar, too!

  • If your husband and son are for you doing it, do it.

    • My son is only For it because of the free trip. I’m just concerned about the guys who look at these things like what do they do with it 🤮

    • Probably jack off and cum on the picture. But that won’t hurt you.

    • 🤮 no thanks

  • Do it. Post it here.

  • if it makes you happy 🥳

  • “a private lingerie/undies shot in a hotel room that lists things like sizes, measurements, turn on /offs, fav position it’s called laying over with (insert calendar girls name)”

    I’m genuinely confused. So basically you are going to be put in some sort of pornography magazine for passengers on planes?

    Either way I’m not so sure why they’d need you to set up a personal biography listing your “turn on/ turn offs”.

    It just sounds like a bad idea though to me. To have guys jacking off to your photos all for just a suppossed maybe week long vacation

    • Is that how you view it? A pin up you think of as porn then I don’t want to do it! That’s what I was asking.

    • Yeah. I mean in the porn magazines you buy at the grocery store its practically the same thing. Women in lingerie

    • And I don't know where you live rn but I’m sure there’s someplace closer by with a warm climate that you can still go to

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  • yes you should do it

    • You’re late to the party!! I’m doing it 😉 why do you think I should I’m Curious

    • because hot sexy MILFs are the calendar I want

    • Lol stop being silly lol

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  • Depends what the pics r like

    • Yea I mean I do t know unti I’m done but I’m guess laying down/playing at the beach. A sexy lingerie pic on the plain. The. Like a matching bra/thong shot laying in a bed in a hotel room pin up stiles I’m not taking my top off bra/thong or sexy lingerie

    • Do u know what pose you will be doing

    • How do u feel about being seen in that

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  • If you got the body for it and don’t mind having your face being shown everywhere

  • I would suggest it depends how much you like having your job and if you think it is more likely you will lose your job as a result of not getting your tits out for the clients or having gotten your tits out for the clients and them subsequently sexually harassing you?

    Sounds like a shit sandwich to me.

    As for your family, it is easier to replace a job than a family if things should go pear shaped there. For example your sons friends jerking off over your pictures.

    How much is a holiday to the Maldives anyway?

    I personally don't think you should live in fear and allow what might happen to spoil your enjoyment of life but the risk / benefit seems to suggest to me that if you dont do it the worse case scenario is that you have to pay for your own holiday and if you get sacked you can sue and if you do do it the worst case is that you don't like your holiday and then you lose your family, job and self respect, though you would have some pictures to use on your online dating profile.

    It's just life, you can't know what's best, you make your choices and then, for better or worse, you live with the consequences.

    • Clearly didn’t real the whole question

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    • You think i didn't read it because some people told you how they would feel after the event before the event happened? I read it. I hope the outcome is the worst possible for you.

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