Should I do a bikini pinup calendar?

[AnnacarsiMama2]

I work for a small (bet getting bigger) private charter. Basically fly rich people around selected locations. My company I’ve worked for is doing a calendar of some of the girls and they picked me. If I want to! It’s not bad it’s a bikini pic I’ll wear a thong, a lingerie shot on an plane and a private lingerie/undies shot in a hotel room that lists things like sizes, measurements, turn on /offs, fav position it’s called laying over with (insert calendar girls name) it seems fun and they are flying us to Maldives 🇲🇻 to do the (shoot) different destination each trad! there would be 6 girls we each get 2 months! I am 39 and married with a son. It seems fun to me and my husband said if you want to go for it. My son who graduated high school in spring, said no until he found out he got to go to Maldives to with us. Then he was like yea sure do it. I feel nervous, I’m not 24 anymore, I’m a mom and a wife hiw will this affect them and I get boys are bits but are people going to be looking at my sexy pictures in my lingerie (something I wear for my husband in the bedroom) and doing weird/gross things while looking at my pictures? Basically the calendars are given out to the passengers. It seems fun but I’m worried about the consequences. What do you guys think?

[Just1dude2]

You do realize the market for these is mostly men? And the reason for this is because they get to ogle women? What else is the point of having photos of women in thong swimsuits and lingerie? Particularly if it has personal intimate details about you?

The questions you have to answer are: why were you considering it? And are you okay with complete strangers having photos of you posing in a tiny bikini and/or your sexy underwear up on their wall for at least a month?

Most guys are probably going to do no more than lust after you and think of you similar to how your husband does when he sees you undressed in only your lingerie. Knowing your measurements and what you like and don't like enables them to fantasize more about you. Some guys will be weird and yes they'll jack off looking at your pictures.

It's up to you.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

🤮 why are some guys such pigs

[Just1dude2]

Is it just that some guys might jack off from your photos that bothers you? Or the looking at you as well?

[AnnacarsiMama2]

Yea that’s yucky

[Just1dude2]

If men other than your husband looking at you makes you feel icky, I don't see the point of doing the shoot. The point of pin-ups is for guys to ogle.

[notwoke]

in 10 years this will not be an option for you due to natural aging. If you do this it will be a great memory and while there might be some negatives they will likely be fleeting, not like this is going to be on CNBC for years on end, right? If you don't do this you have missed out on your moment of fame/greatness and you will regret it. If this was like "hardcore porn" my opinion would be different but this sounds classy enough and most people don't get these opportunities and you probably won't get another chance. Trust me I have some experience in this kind of space. Good luck

[AnnacarsiMama2]

If I do this what do guys do with the pictures. Like I’ve heard all sorts of things. I don’t know if this is true but I’ve heard people tell me that guys will fantasize about another girl, like a pin up/swimsuit /lingerie model. While with their wife like pretending their wife is the model I don’t know if that’s true or not but If it is I don’t want to be a part of that that’s gross

[notwoke]

if you left the house today your part of that. Sorry but guys jack off watching the news because they have a thing for that particular newscaster and all sorts of teenage boys get boners in class if they have a hot teacher. If your worried about that you better become a shut in. In all seriousness though, I don't think jacking off looking at calendars is very prevalent. the main outlet for that is internet porn now, but like I said, a dude sees some chick in the right sunlight and next thing you know he is fantasizing about her while banging his wife. It's how we're wired and women have some screwed up habits that are just as bad. I think this is not an issue unless you want it to be

[AnnacarsiMama2]

I’m going to do it

[Miristheiss]

Your husband is some weak cuck to let his wife do soft porn. You are low class to even want to do this. How disturbed does one need to be to desire to do this.

[notwoke]

good for you. Wishing you the best. I'd love to see it!

[SomeRandomGuy89]

I'd personally say no.

I'm all for doing what you want but I believe once you become a mother and a wife some of that stuff needs to be toned down in public. Secretly I'd bet your husband will be happier with you having turned down the offer rather then accept it.

And of course, your son doesn't want to see that stuff.

But ultimately, it's just a photo-shoot with a limited run. I doubt the house of cards will come crumbling down if you do decide to do it.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

I was going to do it cause it sounded fun but the more I think about it the more I think I’m going to pass

[Guffrus]

I would suggest it depends how much you like having your job and if you think it is more likely you will lose your job as a result of not getting your tits out for the clients or having gotten your tits out for the clients and them subsequently sexually harassing you?

Sounds like a shit sandwich to me.

As for your family, it is easier to replace a job than a family if things should go pear shaped there. For example your sons friends jerking off over your pictures.

How much is a holiday to the Maldives anyway?

I personally don't think you should live in fear and allow what might happen to spoil your enjoyment of life but the risk / benefit seems to suggest to me that if you dont do it the worse case scenario is that you have to pay for your own holiday and if you get sacked you can sue and if you do do it the worst case is that you don't like your holiday and then you lose your family, job and self respect, though you would have some pictures to use on your online dating profile.

It's just life, you can't know what's best, you make your choices and then, for better or worse, you live with the consequences.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

Clearly didn’t real the whole question

[AnnacarsiMama2]

Read*

[Guffrus]

You think i didn't read it because some people told you how they would feel after the event before the event happened? I read it. I hope the outcome is the worst possible for you.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

No because you “how much do you like having your job” that makes zero sense of you read it

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Yes you should it’s an amazing opportunity and you will look amazing. Guys are gonna hawk at you in a tracksuit! Just do it it will be a blast

[Miristheiss]

I'm surprise your hubby is so ho hum. Sure, go do some thong, lingerie, half naked photo shoot to appear in some calendar.

There are more cucks in the world today than ever before though, so maybe I shouldn't be surprised that so many men have such cuck ways today.

[Dargil]

Only you can decide if you have the body for it. If you do, I have no issue. Just nothing "porny".

[bowenw]

It's your body. If you don't mind others seeing it go for it.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

When guys, and single guys see pictures like that do they do weird things? Like what’s a guys reaction

[bowenw]

I think most guys would just admire it. They may have some lustful thoughts. There are always going to be some that get weird.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

😳 that’s weird to me

[AnnacarsiMama2]

I don’t want to be a part of the problem some married guy gets caught gawking at my pictures by his wife something like that ya know

[bowenw]

Guys look at women. If they don't look at your photo they will look at someone else's. Most guys are subtle about it.

[Just1dude2]

@annacarsimama2 don't do it if you don't want to contribute to guys lusting. Yeah, they'll look at you in anything, but the point of a calendar shoot is to invite them to look

[AnnacarsiMama2]

@Just1dude2 I so don’t understand guys lol I get they’re gonna look but like are they thinking about sex and dirty stuff? I’ve heard some guys think about other hot girls like fantasize about “hot girls” like bikini models and stuff when they’re having sex!!! I’m not saying that part is true but I’ve heard people say that!!! 🤮

[Just1dude2]

I'm sure some are. Some are just going to look. Because it's photos intended to be moderately erotic and intended for viewing, they're more likely to be fantasy and/or masturbation fuel. Not as much as full-on porn, but it's not merely like them seeing a woman on the street or at the beach. It's content expressly for the purpose of looking at.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

@Just1dude2 I get looking and saying oh she’s pretty it even she has a great body but why do they have to make it dirty

[Just1dude2]

Because the point of these kinds of photos are to be titillating and get men aroused. Like, when you wear thong bikinis or lingerie for your husband, it gets him aroused, right? You've undressed for the viewers of these photos, so they're going to react similarly.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

@Just1dude2 that’s my husband I have sex with him lol so yea that’s totally different. I’ve seen girls in thong bikinis and be like oh wow she looks nice or even she’s got a great body it’s not a dirty thing obviously lol

[RavVid]

If your husband is ok yeah.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

He’s like if you want to do it, do it it’s up to me

[RavVid]

To be honest I think the 'Laying over xxxx' is a little gross and somewhat passe but if you like the excitement of it... I just have some concern over the excitement/compliment side of things. A girl I knew was approached to do art photography modeling and she was really excited and complimented. Her eyes were bright she was so eager to get to the studio. She rethought it wrt the internet and asked for the pics to be turned over to her but was told they had the copyright. Your sit is very different but still the same in many respects. Assume the whole world see the pics. I'd just counsel not the to let the excitement/compliment to do your thinking for you is all.

[soe11]

If you really comfortable then why not?

If my girlfriend wish I will not stopped her.

[Guardian45]

Do it. Post it here.

[Jerre]

If your husband and son are for you doing it, do it.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

My son is only For it because of the free trip. I’m just concerned about the guys who look at these things like what do they do with it 🤮

[Jerre]

Probably jack off and cum on the picture. But that won’t hurt you.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

🤮 no thanks

[Alex8736]

if it makes you happy 🥳

[WhiteBoyChill]

“a private lingerie/undies shot in a hotel room that lists things like sizes, measurements, turn on /offs, fav position it’s called laying over with (insert calendar girls name)”

I’m genuinely confused. So basically you are going to be put in some sort of pornography magazine for passengers on planes?

Either way I’m not so sure why they’d need you to set up a personal biography listing your “turn on/ turn offs”.

It just sounds like a bad idea though to me. To have guys jacking off to your photos all for just a suppossed maybe week long vacation

[AnnacarsiMama2]

Is that how you view it? A pin up you think of as porn then I don’t want to do it! That’s what I was asking.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah. I mean in the porn magazines you buy at the grocery store its practically the same thing. Women in lingerie

[WhiteBoyChill]

And I don't know where you live rn but I’m sure there’s someplace closer by with a warm climate that you can still go to

[AnnacarsiMama2]

I never really thought of pin up as porn ya know but I get your point

[AnnacarsiMama2]

Do you think the guys would do that to the pictures?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Most definitely there are some that will. Either way women in bikinis is like the definition of a pornographic magazine. I’d find it kind of degrading tbh

[AnnacarsiMama2]

🤮 no thanks

[QuietRunner]

yes you should do it

[AnnacarsiMama2]

You’re late to the party!! I’m doing it 😉 why do you think I should I’m Curious

[QuietRunner]

because hot sexy MILFs are the calendar I want

[AnnacarsiMama2]

Lol stop being silly lol

[QuietRunner]

lol I love MILFs

[jjj101010]

Depends what the pics r like

[AnnacarsiMama2]

Yea I mean I do t know unti I’m done but I’m guess laying down/playing at the beach. A sexy lingerie pic on the plain. The. Like a matching bra/thong shot laying in a bed in a hotel room pin up stiles I’m not taking my top off bra/thong or sexy lingerie

[jjj101010]

Do u know what pose you will be doing

[jjj101010]

How do u feel about being seen in that

[AnnacarsiMama2]

Don’t know never did anything like this before never ever

[jjj101010]

Drop me a message? Easier to talk in DM

[AnnacarsiMama2]

By my husband I love it by total strangers I dunno I’ve never done calendars or modeling before I’m just a mom/wife. I love wearing sexy lingerie and tiny bikinis and getting my husband worked up ⛺️ lol

[jjj101010]

That’s nice. Have u been seen by anyone else like that

[AnnacarsiMama2]

No!!!

[jjj101010]

Do u get a lot of compliments

[AnnacarsiMama2]

Like hit on from guys type stuff? Yea all the time but most girls do

[jjj101010]

Not most?

[AnnacarsiMama2]

I think so. I’ve been hit on In front of my son you’d be surprised guys are shameless

[jjj101010]

Were u wearing something sexy at the time

[AnnacarsiMama2]

No!! Leggings and I think a zip up work out top like I was wearing work out stuff

[jjj101010]

Guess that could work for some guys. Lol

[AnnacarsiMama2]

No that’s inappropriate!! I’m a married woman at the store with my son I don’t like that at all

[jjj101010]

I didn’t say it was

[AnnacarsiMama2]

😊 good

[jjj101010]

Follow back?

[jjj101010]

Check dms

[Anonymous]

If you got the body for it and don’t mind having your face being shown everywhere