Should I do something?

[Anonymous]

Well i dont want to get in details much, i met w one of the guys who raped me years ago again and had to talk to him but he doesn't even remember me and that makes me angry , would anything happen if i talk to police now?

[JustinTimberlegs]

I think yeah, probably should let the police know. They will most likely not do anything about it, but at least it will be on file so if more people report him or something happens in the future they might be able to build a better case or understand the story better.

Sorry he treated you that way, and not even be remorseful about it. Please practice some self love and try to do something nice for yourself this week. Best wishes!

[DonkeyDan]

That will depend on your local laws and country laws. Generally there is no statute of limitations on rape in western countries, but depending on the amount of time past the police may decide that too much time has passed and there is zero evidence or no witnesses and therefore it wouldn't stand up in court. The only thing you can do is go to the police if you want to and speak to them about it.

[ohshee]

I'm Thinking he's full of shit , and is lying his as off he brought, trauma to a person he's not going to forget that. Yes I would do something about it. Did you file a police report when it first happened

[Asker]

I didn't

[ohshee]

What did you tell anybody about it. Or have you just held it in all this time. I had a very good friend who confided in me he wants back about something that happened to her when she was younger and she has never told anybody and now that she's way older she kind of looks at it like a different way but I don't want to get into that on here on a private message I would let you know but I don't want to put her business out there

[Asker]

I didn't tell anyone aswell

[ohshee]

Yeah there's a lot of girls that this happens too and they don't tell anybody in one way I do understand and another way I don't because I don't want that guy to ever do that again to anybody I would love to ask you a bunch of questions on this but it's hard to do because of your age with my friend it has changed her for Life basically she never told anybody and now she has fantasies about it it's kind of where is because I'm trying to be her friend and it's something that I should be helping her through but she wants 2 roll play it out and I feel guilty for doing that because like I said this is something I would think that I would be helping her to get through it. Not role-playing it out and usually I have my shit together on this kind of a subject but I'm just curious how and why and what makes that happen she has tried to explain it to me but I need more information lol

[Gwenhwyfar]

Yes. You have a good shot. Tell the police.

[Asker]

But it was like 5 6 years ago so would thet believe me

[Gwenhwyfar]

They will take you seriously and investigate

[Sam_The_Savage]

Nope it's too late now

[Wise4myage]

Talk to the police and find out what the statue of limitations are for rape where you live. And report that asshole anyway.

[Anonymous]

We need more details. How old were both of you when it happened, how long ag was it and what type of rape was it?

[Asker]

It was around 5 years ago and is there types of rape? Does it make it better or worse depending on. how was it

[Opinion Owner]

A lot of different things are considered rape today. There is forcible rape, having sex when the woman is drunk, even just having sex without her saying "yes, I want to have sex with you now". Your profile says you are under 18, so if it happened 5 years ago that would mean you were 12 or younger. How old was her at the time?

[Asker]

He was around 17 ot 18 not sure and it was forcible