Should I feel ashamed of my fetish of having sex with my girlfriend or being concerned with my dominant nature in the bedroom?

I work a stressful job and make good money and my girlfriend stays home and is a housewife of sorts. I am a good guy and don’t have any crazy fetishes besides maybe deepthroating and face fucking but that is somewhat normal I guess. When I come home I like to relieve my stress on my girlfriend by having rough sex and getting a sort of rough BJ. I eat her out and I definitely take care of her needs as well but I feel a bit more masculine maybe than what is normal. Should I feel ashamed to have such a dominant demeanor in the bedroom or just let it out? I am only dominant in the bedroom and treat her well just wondering some opinions…
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  • I’m also a rather dominant guy. I work and my girlfriend stays home ( I made her quit her job)

    When I come home from work I expect dinner would be prepped and that she will bring me a beer and while I sit on the recliner she will be giving me a blowjob and if I wanted I would cum in her mouth which she will swallow or if I tell her to remove her undies then she will do so for me to put my dick in her pussy to cum.

    Once or twice per month I sort of “rape” her. While she is sleeping, I would squeeze her boobs hard to get fully erect, then remove her undies, which by then she would be awakened, then her wrists gets pinned to the bed and I put lots of force and strength to insert around 6-7” of my dick into her pussy. Only the first time I did it I told her moments before that I’m taking ownership of her and that I knew it would be very painful. Been doing it for 2 years now, never asked her.

    You could ask her but usually if she doesn’t protest the first time then it is good to keep at it.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Nah you're good, if she didn't like submitting to you she would just leave, so just keep facefucking her sounds like the life

Most Helpful Girls

  • You should be asking her, not us lol.
    Have a conversation with her and ask if thats something she's comfortable with as well.

  • No, as long as it's consensual and you both enjoy it, take care of each other and so on, then there's no shame in it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Absolutely not. Personally I love a guy whose more dominant in the bedroom and takes complete charge. Nothing to be ashamed of

  • Not at all, as long as she's down with it. Most women have a rough sex kink anyways

  • No, only if she's not into it and you push the issue.