Should I feel embarrassed that my boyfriend's neighbours heard us having loud sex?

[Anonymous]

[Bananaman177]

On the one hand, they'll never look at you the same way again.

On the other hand, fuck them, they don't pay your bills, who cares what they think?

[coffeewithcream]

No, you love it and want them to hear more.

[AmandaYVR]

Girl, you're in the perfect position. It was HIS neighbours, not yours. So you get all the benefit, none of the awkwardness.

[All4ur_pleazure]

They probably enjoyed listening. Unless you were so loud they knocked on the wall because they were trying to sleep. If you see them just smile and wave

[AustinMan]

I don't know why. It happens. But when it comes to loud sex, here's a funny, true story.

For those women who think they're noisy in bed... ↗

[ellkell]

It's definitely awkward for a minute but even if they didn't hear you, you're an adult in a relationship, no one cares because most people are doing it.

[ohshee]

Nooooooo walk tall and proud lol with a smile

[asomeone]

If you live in an apartment building of a certain age, it comes with the territory. In New York, we say that you’ve really made it if you can walk around your living room naked with the blinds open and nobody will see you. I suppose the corollary to that is being able to scream during sex without your neighbors hearing it. Thin walls. We pretend we don’t know all of our neighbors’ business, but we do.

[Listenhear]

Eh it’s important to be considerate of others but at the same time we can be overcome by passion and pleasure

[DrippingHoney]

It happens. If it embarrasses you, quiet down next time. If it doesn't embarrass you, go for it.

[boggboss]

No mistakes where made it's done already

[chriscdi]

maybe a little? 🤷🏽‍♂️

[winterfox10]

Nope. Literally no one cares. Just don't do it all the time. Being considerate of the people around you always takes you so much further than anyone expects in life.

[magiusX26]

nope

[pleasestopthis]

Well there's nothing you can do about it so I suggest you move on, but from now on try to be more considerate to the neighboors, it's awkward to have to listen to random moans and sex sounds, especially when there are children around.

[Arispapa999]

Hmm no
Not really they probably laughed at it and that's all
No need to make it a big deal

[Asker]

Actually they knocked on the wall.

[Arispapa999]

One time I happened to hear my neighbors having sex other that loneliness I didn't feel irritated, maybe the neighbors have children and they thought it what inappropriate

[Bman4907]

only be embarrassed if they yell back, "it's over already?"

[COMMODOREII]

Nah live in the moment. 😛😛

[GreenGold1992]

Well do you feel embarrassed?

[Asker]

Tbh I don't😂😂

[GreenGold1992]

Well there you go

[Guardian45]

My neighbours heard me banging the bed against the wall and my girlfriend screaming. I dont think either one of us cared at the time what the neighbors heard!

[Jakeofalltrades93]

nope

[CubaPirate]

Only slightly lol