Should I feel guilty that I like it when men touch me in certain areas?

Question

I like meeting up with guys online and having them touch me in certain areas of my body, if ya know what i mean. It feels incredible. but i feel quite guilty about this because my parents always tell me to not let men touch me inappropriately. Other people are telling me that this is not the right way to behave. I don't have sex but I really like it when men grope and rub me in certain areas or finger me. It just feels so good. Its like a "need" that my body has. I don't know why but I just like it so much

OddBeMe · Accepted Answer

If you are 18, yes it’s totally cool. Just be careful with the guys you meet from online. I could forward you the millions of hours of documentary footage of missing dead girls who “met a guy online.”

But of course sex wise you’re doing just fine. Date guys, make out with them, let them touch you. If you want to have sex make sure you want to and aren’t pushed into it. And then be protected, and don’t rely on the guy to do that.

I’m exhausted. Go to your room!

Gent207-2 · Accepted Answer

Sounds like you need some information on sexuality and attraction, both of which are not inherently evil until they a re used to justify evil actions

StarWarGirl · Answer

If you don't want to get treated as cheap then set a standard who could cross the certain borderline. We like many things but it's our boundaries, our morals, what defines us. We cannot act upon all of our liking or temptation.

Red_Arrow · Answer

What you are physically feeling is completely normal. The "proper" way to allow those touches are with one special person that you really care about. But most relationships in younger people are not permanent. So it is likely that you will allow many men to touch you in those ways. It is generally preferred that you only be involved with one person at a time instead of having more than one that you allow this with.

It is a very strong desire and many experts have labeled it a need. Enjoy it as nature intended. My question is, are you also touching them in pleasing ways? Both you and they should enjoy that very much! Also, though you have not yet had intercourse, you will likely be doing that soon. You need to prepare by ensuring protection against getting pregnant. There are prescriptions that will keep you from getting pregnant, but not protect you against diseases that are sexually passed. Condoms, used properly can protect you there, but lessen the pleasurable feelings. You should talk with your doctor about what is best for you.

patrick994 · Answer

Excuse me, but why should you feel guilty? There is nothing wrong with it, if you give consent for others to touch you and you enjoy it, no one is guilty of anything, it is a very normal consensual relationship between two people, forget about the others and enjoy the moments.

Dargil · Answer

I ask only that you be selective and not random.

MysticDevice · Answer

No need to feel guilty for something you like. All things considered, what you described isn't that bad.

Wise4myage · Answer

Of course not and don’t listen to your parents. If it feels good, then that’s great!😊

bros26 · Answer

It's normal if you want more experience then pm me

nudeNhorny · Answer

that's something natural, not to feel guilty about.

driven159 · Answer

that is your thing you enjoy so just enjoy it it's your body to do what you want.

Guido · Answer

It's not uncommon to do things that feel good. If something feels that good then we tend to keep doing it.  While touching feels good, sex is even better.