On the surface it is perfectly fine.
Sex is healthy, natural and instinctive. In evolutionary terms the male typically wants to impregnate as many females as possible. The female is looking for the alpha male with healthy sperm who can sire healthy offspring and then find food for mom and baby and ward off rival males and predators. That is the instinctive starting point.
Suffice to say, again in evolutionary terms, the human male tends - and these are tendencies on both sides - to want to have sex with many women. Women, on the other hand, want sex with fewer partners but can, at an instinctive level, be attracted to other males who seems able to "outcompete" the male they are with.
At the evolutionary level, you want to be impregnated by the sperm of the male whose offspring are most likely to succeed and thrive. The sex drive, after all, being rooted at the most base level in the desire to make babies and propagate the species. (It is how the species has survived for several hundred thousand years.)
So that is where you start. Yet we are more than just our evolutionary instincts. We intellectualize and emotions come into play beyond the instinctive level. Your brain reacted biochemically to your husband when you met him and at the instinctive level you wanted to mate with him.
Yet it was more than that - it was love. That love was real. Love being defined as "willing the good of the other." You cared about him - and presumably he you - and wanted not just to mate with him, but to take care of him.
So, then, how does it play out? Well, you say you enjoyed watching him pleasure another woman. Odds are, at the level of evolutionary psychology, is that what really turned you on is that seeing him have sex with another woman affirmed in your own mind that you had mated with an alpha male. Actually, in that weird way, her pleasure confirmed your pleasure.
Great. It begs the question though. Will having sex with another man make you feel better? How will your husband react? How will that make you feel?
These are particular questions that only you can answer. My girlfriend and I have lived together for 12 years next month and have three children together. (We don't want to be married.) In our early days we were pretty wild but somewhere along the line came to realize that, while we enjoyed the sex, the sex we most enjoyed was the sex we shared just the two of us.
There is no way I can tell you where you are with your husband. Nor he with you. That is case specific and I don't know either of you and I am only hearing your side of the story.
What I can tell you is that you need to be prepared to deal with feelings that you did not expect. Will having sex with that alpha male make you think less of your husband as an alpha male in his own right? Will you feel guilt? Do you have any religious or other moral/philosophic qualms?
Plus, again, males tend to be far more - again at an evolutionary level - territorial than females. It comes off as hypocrisy - he can have sex with many women, but you can't? - but instinctively he wants, in effect, a harem. (Not in the literary sense, but in the sense that you see with primate species - see also silver back gorillas, for example.)
If you are prepared for all that, then by all means and know where you want to draw the lines. (Example, in our early days, my girlfriend and I agreed that if she got pregnant by another man, I would treat that baby as my own. She also felt that if I got another woman pregnant, that she would treat that baby as her own if the other woman wanted it that way.)
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Suffice to say, I won't lie. We enjoyed those early days of what amounted to free sex. Yet somewhere along the line sex between us mattered more and you need to be prepared for all sorts of conflicted feelings on both sides. Based on what you wrote you don't sound like you are quite ready - and you had best be sure, given male evolutionary psychology, that your husband is ready. It can be an amazing experience that puts you in touch with your most base animal instincts and that can be an incredible emotional and physical release - not to mention just plain fun. However, the irony is that you cannot just act on impulse for this most base impulse. You need to think it through and have VERY open and good communication with your S/O. That is about the best advice - based on personal experience - that I can give you. P. S. For what it is worth, my girlfriend - and the three little munchkins she has selflessly given me - are the center of my universe. I cannot imagine life without her. If she wanted sex with other men - based on where we are in our relationship now - I would be sympathetic and understand. However, it would hurt.
Women don't fuck, women get fucked, and he approve of you being with other man while you worried about that? are you worried for your image?
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Seems totally fair to me.
Not if you don't really want to.
If everyone involved is okay with it, go for it.
If you whas doing a threesome in that time, yes it will be fair for you to have olso another man, you see him whit other woman. But he did't see you whit other guy.
If you are not redy you need to think about it and see if you are confortable whit having mmf.
it's your marriage. and don't play dumb, you wouldn't be somewhat ready if you didn't ask this question... but you did
Its not a matter of being smart or not. Its asking those who have gone further than I have or even close since I'm unsure if its the right move for me. Also if I wasn't somewhat ready there wouldn't of been any opportunity in anyway a hole.
you're calling me an asshole? why are you not ready?
I've only been with my husband and and physically abused before that... Call me crazy but I'm pretty hesitant. Also dont want to mess anything up.
You mean, should you get fucked by another man? And, sure if your guy says it's okay.
I think it would be fair.
Yes you should fuck me
Why not seems fair to me
What turns you on about this idea?
Im asking the same thing about my relationship
I'm glad I'm not alone
Do you feel the need or envy to do it? I do... a lot
Not necessarily. I've only had 2 men and I am curious but very weary
Well if you don’t know if you are ready then I think no
Dont do it just because. Do it because you want to
Get the Holy Ghost and you won't be confused how sexuality should be just 1 man and 1 woman in marriage.
I can't give an objective opinion, as that's not something I would do.
I can share this from someone else's point of view, a woman doesn't share good dick and a man doesn't share good pussy. JMO
Do you want it? Dont do anything you dont want. When you do tough, then go for it! But let ur hubby know or else its just cheating 😖
Better wear a rubber. No glove no love that's my motto.
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