Should I go out clubbing wearing this outfit?

[Anonymous]

[lightbulb27]

I love this pic! Sexy mom, desperate get affection and attention. It's clear mom... look at the toys in the scene.

I intend that in a positive way, it's ok to have your wants and desires, normal.
I voted no... I think you may catch what you don't want... or especially don't need. And to be honest, with how you look, and your condition/shape... you don't need to be "that" direct.

Makes me think something wrong here in the self esteem department.

[Asker]

I am a single mom of 5 kids ans i had only had sex with my husband of course my self esteem is low

[lightbulb27]

I read the picture right then... thank you for confirming that! So you feel rejected by him and "worthless", likely lost. Feelings have all kinds of lies in them. I'd much more rather you see you do things to boost your own self image and worth than try to get it from some jerk at a club who only sees you as an object. I wish I knew how you keep in shape like that. Only way I know would be rock climbing or crossfit... Latino genetics I guess?

[Asker]

I don't know what happen but he would call me fat ugly a slut and he would always hit me. I am a model or was until 2 years ago I retire and all i do is exercise with my kids. one of my daughters plays basketball so we always go and play. I go to the gym every day.

[lightbulb27]

Wow! I'm sorry to hear that, you didn't ask for or deserve that emotional abuse. Since you were close, it's probably hard to see clearly... through the lies. One can only guess why he said those things. Him projecting his own lack of confidence onto you would be my guess. Maybe he saw how attractive you are and that is his way of controlling you, by lowing you. I've seen that with another gal I knew from Columbia.. he controlled her and was threatend she'd leave. Either way, that's not "love" nor healthy... probably good you are apart at this point... until it's sorted out. Am sad for the kids, unfortunate to see relationships breakdown after so much built together. But, emotional health is important...

[Asker]

My kids were the only reason i left. because they ask me and beged me to leave.

[lightbulb27]

wow, that is are. he was very abusive then, lookup the word narcssisist and see i that fits. will take some time to get perspective and regain your self worth. you will learn a lot about yourself if you write, reflect, explore yourself... and thus grow.

[Asker]

Being honest with u i went out trying to get fuck but i didn't I found a guy who was nice to me..

[lightbulb27]

I figured that.. inexpensive medication... suprised didn't find. You prob found someone who read your emotion.

[Asker]

The guy 21 my oldest child 20

[lightbulb27]

Well this has been quite a confessional hasn't it:)? Desperate is often a turnoff... same way it is for a guy to be desperate. What's next? those needs go up and down like a yoyo in a cycle.. that's nature. Not everyone who goes fishing... catches a fish! Also... be careful what fish you catch:)! There's plenty of males out there... somewhere... if that's what you want...

[Jjpayne]

I'd just be careful for when you sweat in it. I'd like to see how it reacts to that. It's a little reveiling but I'm sure you probably would see in a night club. I'd say go for it. You do have a really great body by the way and are really cute

[Tiffanyrosebarbie]

Maybe change the footwear and add some accessories to compliment your beautiful body girl xx

[shreya_shiry]

its really sexy dress, if you are confident about it then sure

[Asker]

I already did thanks

[notaspammer]

@shreya_shiry Maybe someday u wear something like this!! 😛😛😋😁🤪

[shreya_shiry]

@notaspammer not on public places. its India dude

[notaspammer]

Ya.. sad..

[notaspammer]

U could post it here but :P

[PrudentGuy]

Of course if you want a "catch" for a ONS; otherwise no.

[NightFlirt]

You'll be the hottest girl at the club

[Red_Arrow]

Nah. Come to my house instead. :-)

[ChronicThinker]

If you want, I personally wouldn't.

[ZackBan]

I love the confidence you're wearing with that dress. Definitely a sight I wish more women would show.

It's been a day since the questions so... Did you go out in it?

[MrTuxedo]

For clubbing, completely normal. Where I come from, girls dress like that for clubs all the time. Nothing odd.

[Dongtai]

You’ll fit right in

[Reaperbot666]

depends on how much attention you wanna get from guys. many will try to flirt or hit on you. also good chance you'll get a bunch of drinks. but those guys might expect something in return.

[Finchie40]

If you want to get guys attention and get laid then yes lol

[SlothySlob]

If your intent is to get dick, yes.

[Drumlin2001]

Bit cold in UK for that outfit

[Johnny1485]

I strongly endorse this decision

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Why not, you might get laid

[MackToday]

You shouldn't go out "clubbing". Act like a lady instead.

[chriscdi]

yea ig, you already have it on, might as well

[Asker]

Lol i could change

[chriscdi]

well yea, what are your intentions at this club cause you dont wanna wear something too revealing, its fine but aren't usually clubs like dark? if so then it shouldn't be too visible but if there's something you wanna wear that you like better then go for it 😂🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

Find a dark space where i can bend over for him (;

[chriscdi]

well that would be anywhere if the club is dark, besides its a club, bend down anywhere and no one would care 😂

[Asker]

Lol right

[chriscdi]

🙂👌

[codycccccccccc]

No that's church clothes

[es20490446e]

That will be success.

[Texaskid1]

If you do you will be surrounded by a forest of dicks.

[Asker]

I did

[politelyme]

If your confident, strong minded, feel in control, why shouldn't you. You look great and will get attention (good for the ego) receive a few free drinks so good for you. Don't be judged by negative comments.

[moststrangestguy]

Sure you will just look super super attractive and make all the shy guy nervous to even be around you