Should I go to therapy if I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22?

[Anonymous]

I feel like I don’t have social skills and nobody likes me.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Why would you have to go to therapy for still being a virgin at 22? I'm 21 and still a virgin, so close to the same age as you. If you feel like you need help with social skills then yes, you could go to a therapist for that probably. But your virginity isn't a cause of that.

[daydreammarie]

If you think you need therapy then go to therapy but don't do it due to the age you lost your virginity. Since when was there an age that you should lose it? People wait for marriage, wait for the right person, focus on school or work before relationships, have issues that come before relationships etc , there's a whole list of reasons why people are still virgins and again what age are you suppose to lose your virginity? There isn't one

[FriendlyEnigma]

At least you lost your virginity 🙃 but don't to go therapy cuz it took you a few years to get laid. Go to therapy cuz you lack socials skills, also how did you even have sex if you can't really talk to others? 😅

[mich15smith]

not necessarily, you should get a hobby and make friends, excercise more. and learn to value yourself

[Chels96]

Just try to learn to love yourself. Go out, make some new friends.
Why would you go to therapy for not losing your virginity at the age of 22? In fact i’m 24 and also still a virgin. Nothing wrong with that!

[Isabella1100]

If you feel that way then therapy might benefit you! I don’t think that the fact you didn’t lose your virginity till 22 is too much related!

[Asker]

I don’t have social skills and I’m not well liked if I lost my virginity at 22

[Isabella1100]

Social skills and being well liked don’t have much to do with u not losing it till 22. Nobody will dislike u because of when u lost your virginity.

[Cherokeehp]

Your virginity has nothing to do with it. You should go to therapy cause you have no social skills and feel as though no one likes you.

[Anonymous]

no, people have sex at any point in their life... there's nothing wrong with that. If you lack social skills, just try to step out of your comfort zone and talk to new people.. or old time friends. it might be scary at first but try your best!