Should I have a friends with benefits relationship while in a relationship bc my partner doesn’t want to have sex?

[Anonymous]

Just want to satisfy my sexual urges. I’ll make sure he never finds out.

[Anonymous]

You should make it clear that sex is an important need in your relationship to him. Then leave him if it’s not something he is prepared to work on because cheating is not a good answer to someone you care about really unless he cheats on you then fair game.

[Asker]

I did yesterday and we ended up arguing again. I feel so lonely bc physical touch is my live language but he just doesn’t think it’s a big deal

[Opinion Owner]

Did he say why he doesn’t want too?

[Asker]

He’s worried we will get caught and he’s always too tired. But he doesn’t even work long hours or go to school. I think he’s just lazy and lack effort

[Asker]

I feel so unsatisfied but then I still love him too.

[Opinion Owner]

Hmmm yeah maybe he’s just not into you lol

[Opinion Owner]

If you love him cheating will hurt him maybe you can be friends if you respectfully leave him.

[Asker]

I think he’s just gotten too comfortable and lost interest in sex. And I’m not trying to sound self centered but I am pretty attractive and fit too.

[Opinion Owner]

That’s never happened to me so I don’t know. I thought being comfortable made people want more sex. Do you think he’s depressed or on any medications? I’m sure you are beautiful, don’t feel like this means you aren’t.

[Little_Bumblebee]

If you cannot be faithful, then break up, and have some respect for other people

[DrewJohnson]

Have a friends with benefits relationship while you have a boyfriend is risky. It'll potentially end with heartbreak. As long as you know that going into the situation, I wish you the best of luck. Enjoy!

[MrCommodore]

Yes, if you don't want to end the relationship then you might as well get sorted.

[Anemone978]

You can do it if you want... but I think you will really regret your decision if you go through with it...

[Gummy_Cluster]

Cheating is really bad. Dump the dork and start over.

[slatyb]

Why don't you dump your partner?

[FilmGuy93]

Why not just breakup?

[Wise4myage]

No, that's cheating. Just break up and move on.

[Zayed_]

You’re dignity is about this 🤏 much for just posting such a disgusting question.

[virgincountryboy]

Well I am in the basics that I am in same place I have never been or try to before

[NostalgiaSenpi]

You're disgusting. Seriously. Talk to your partner instead of just blatantly cheating on them.

[Brando10222]

That's cheating. And disgusting. Break up with him first

[ThomasDavid1989]

How do you know you're in a relationship, if you haven't had sex yet

[CubaPirate]

Why not just drop him and move on

[MasterKS]

Do what your heart says, dont care what other thinks.

[tallblondejohm]

Sure got to get yours

[Anonymous]

Wh0re behavior.

[Anonymous]

How would you feel if you learned that the reason he doesn't want sex is because he's fucking some other girl?

[Asker]

Nah he’s just never been sexually actively

[Opinion Owner]

You TOTALLY missed the point!