Should I have one night stands to get better at sex?

[Anonymous]

I want to become a better sexual partner for whoever I'm in a relationship with next. Is it a bad idea to Learn from experience or should I just wait to practice with whoever I actually want to be with?

[Roostah]

You can get practice and lower risk of STD by being in a committed relationship with a girl and having sex over and over with her.

[Anonymous]

There's no way to get "better" at sex. You just need to find girls who like what you like. That's all.

[SarahsSummer]

Experience is experience. You just have to decide what kind of overall man you are.

[Roostah]

So basically your saying: Will you join the dark side or embrace the light.

[SarahsSummer]

@Roostah I don't really get your analogy. I personally am not judging good vs evil. Just saying there are 2 different kinds of guys out there and you need to figure out which one you are.

[Roostah]

When you say 2 different guys are you referring to:

"2 men in our society" that this mytake addresses?

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22916-the-structure-of-the-dating-game-unwrapped-for-young-men-to-understand

[SarahsSummer]

@Roostah that's pretty close but here's the thing. If you are one type of guy, yes you can gain a lot of experience with sex but zero experience in being a good mate because you have no interest in that. Or you could be a guy who wants to find a good mate but because of unfortunate choices of women they end up gaining experience with sex. For me, I found happiness with an older guy who clearly wanted a relationship but got good atvsex somewhete along the way. I think it's important for a guy to know how to treat a girl. Not just in the bedroom but on dates, socially etc. and some guys will never learn that if they jus walk into a bar, drag a girl out to banks and do it again the next night with someone else. He'll learn the mechanics of sex pretty quick but the overall knowing how to please a woman (your initial question) comes from the time you spend with each.

[SarahsSummer]

*to bang. Not banks.

[TheWorldEndsWithYou]

Depends on how many partners you've had. If you already had a couple of relationships and plenty of sex; I'm sure you're pretty decent unless you want to be a gigolo or something.

[Anonymous]

That could work but use a condom.

[Anonymous]

Just talk it out with your partner

[Anonymous]

Keep it up you will end up like charlie sheen