Should I have sex with my girlfriend if she’s drunk?

My girlfriend likes to party and drink. I do too, but much not as much as she does, and sometimes she’ll want to have sex when she’s drunk af and I’m sober. Is it ok to have sex with her if she’s drunk, but she’s initiating it?

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  • From a legal standpoint, no. And it's generally better not to just like, morally. But I guess that's a discussion you could have with her when she's sober? Generally I wouldn't suggest it though just because of how complex it can become legally if something happens, even if she does consent when sober.

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  • I wouldn't go there, if I were you. That's some shit that will used against you later. Everything will be perfectly fine in her mind until she decides that she has a problem with you, and suddenly every questionable thing you ever did (and even some things that you didn't do) will become ammunition for her and her girlfriends to come after you with.

  • i personally wouldn't but you should discuss this when both of you are in a sober state and discuss this foreal, that she initiates it sometimes and you aren't sure if you should feed into it because you dont want to take advantage of her, im sure she will appreciate the on how good of a guy you are and give you an answer as well.

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  • Talk to her about it when she is completely sober. I would say when she had had a couple of drinks and is relaxed but open the fine, but when she is having difficulty walking then it is a hard no.

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  • no, she can always come back later and make accusations against you.

  • If she can't consent then no

  • Better have that ist saved on your "security cameras" just in case. Just sayin'

  • For me that's a hard NO but, everyone is different so u should talk whit her about that topic really

  • If you are already intimate, sure.

  • If the roles were reversed - would YOU be happy with it?

    If the answer is yes, then take the ''Cowboy Approach'': 'Shoot first; ask questions later'

    Yeehah, it's a free country 😜

    Just don't make her pregnant...

  • I'd have her sign something before she starts drinking and film it, just incase. Can't be too careful these days.

  • If she has done this before and was okay with it the next day then go for it.

  • Ethically, no.

    Legally, check the laws where you live. In many jurisdictions a drunk cannot consent, period. Even if consent was given before intoxication, it will still be considered rape in many places. Even if you live together, even if you are married.

  • Yup. It’s fine.

  • Lol she’s your girlfriend, surprised how many women here are being like “no don’t do it” like we’re talking about a committed relationship and she initiates, this is totally fine

  • Wtf, do you ever have sex before when you are both sober? Do you both even talk about sex together.

    • Why can't you ask her this yourself.

  • Ask her before you get drunk

  • Just make sure she's cool agrees when she's sober. If so use her whenever.

  • You said she's your girlfriend, correct? Like, you live together and have regular sex? If my description of your relationship is correct, it's up to you whether YOU wanna have sex. You have prior consent.

  • Eh I think that is something you should discuss with her whilst she is sober. For me personally, I’d want my boyfriend to tell me no if I were drunk and he were sober because I feel like it’s taking advantage of someone. But she may feel differently. Just discuss it with her whilst you’re both sober.