Should I have sexual encounters with him?

I'm 19 and I have a physical disability. I met this guy who's 48 who want to have sex with me. I really feel uncomfortable doing it but at the same time I want to be pleasured. I asked him will he pay me. And he said only if we have penetrational sex but i don't want that. I'm just skeptical. What do y'all think?
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Superb Opinion

  • You shouldn't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing or have reservations about. If you want to get some action and you don't want to do specifically with this guy wants you to do then either ask him to be flexible and accommodating to what you need or find another dude because there's definitely people out there who are just as wound up and in need of releases as you are, so don't cave into pressure from someone who's trying to make you do something that makes you uncomfortable.

Most Helpful Guy

  • This dude has lived your life twice and more over. I think there would be a lot of guys that would be willing around your age. You just need to look harder. Go on dating sites. It's really easy for girls to find a hookup partner on dating sites... even with a disability. Start talking to guys there and build some trust with them before you do it.

    • Ur clearly not a disabled woman if u think it's easy 4 us to find a sexual partner. But thanks 4 the advice.

    • You're right. I'm not a disabled woman and I'm not going to pretend I know the difficulties of being one. What I do know is there are a lot of nice and horny dudes out there that would be more than willing to get in your pants... believe me.

Most Helpful Girl

  • well your and adult so you have to make that choice by yourself

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  • I think you should run like hell

  • You want to be a whore with someone 30 years older than you?

  • Your description is confusing. Does your disability make it hard for you to have sex? If not, what about it is bothering you? His age? And why do you expect pay. You want someone to pleasure you.

    • No but bc people with disabilities are treated like shit in this world its hard 4 me to find people to have sex with. He's paying me bc if im having sex with a man that's twice my age he might as well pay my way through school

    • I don't treat people with disabilities in a bad way, but if that has been your experience, it is very real to you. If you find that it is hard to find someone to have sex with, you should be glad to find someone who would enjoy having sex with you. May I ask what your disability is?

    • If he pays you once it definitely won't put you through school

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  • I would wait and have sex with someone closer in age to you.

  • Um, the age of him and the fact he is willing to pay for penetration sex is huge red flags. I would avoid this guy and situation altogether. You both obviously do not want the same thing.

  • What do you actually want?

  • If you're not comfortable, don't do it.

  • I would hate for the guy to be taken advantage of you but it's up to you if you want sex now if he penetrates you there is a chance you could get pregnant but as far as being disabled that shouldn't stop you unless that could run into a problem for you I'm sorry for your disability but a man age 48 who wants sex with a girl age 19 should love the girl and date her and be with her and if you just want to be pleasured and not penetrated then tell him he could play with you down there?

  • depends if u wanna get banged and enjoy getting fucked or u still wanna use ur fingers

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  • Don’t do it. That guy has no feelings for you. All he’s interested in is what’s in your panties

  • If you don’t trust him, don’t do it.

  • You're uncomfortable about it. You have a physical disability and if he had sex with you he could easily get into trouble for raping you whether you wanted the sex or not (depending on the laws of the country you live in). Such a situation would be good for neither of you.
    Bottom line: DON'T DO IT.

    • What laws say people with physical disabilities can't consent to sex?

    • Some countries might have laws like that, depending on the disability. If yours does, any sex between you and this gentleman will end badly for both of you. If he proves to be a bad person, your disability will likely mean that you are completely defenceless against him. He too may be criticised for taking advantage of you just by having sex with you. Like I said, DON'T DO IT.

    • Um no sir. people with physical disabilities can consent to sex. I don't know who told they couldn't. That's abliest to sit here and think that disabled people can't enjoy sex like everyone else. I don't know why you abled body people feel they're superior to us. I am not weak. I just consider making stupid decisions like everyone else. And thank for telling me about the laws imma look into that. Bc that's a major problem

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  • Don't do it please. The age gap is too much and creepy. If you feel uncomfortable don't do it even if he gonna pay you. He want to be plesured either masturbate or find a guy more your age group and feel comfortable with.

  • Is this is a troll? Or are you really that stupid? Had to be a troll lmao

    • Or maybe my life have been different than yours. I experience things you haven't. But yk nothing about that you dumbass

    • Wtf does that have to do with you being so lame a 48 year old can buy your vagina? What a disappointment you are. 🤡

  • Do what you want. That simple.

  • What do you mean physical disability?

  • If you're not comfortable don't do it.

    If I may, what is your disability?

  • Yeah

  • take the money and have fun

  • As long as you’re consenting and legal age, it should be fine.

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