Should I hook up with a young guy?

I'm 26 years old virgin (due to conservative and religious upbringing) who has been chatting which lead to sexting with this 19 year old guy. I am not looking for anything serious just little fun. I want to get rid of my virginity, cause I'm an atheist now and don't give much shit about virginity. I am conflicted due to such huge age gap and whether I would even enjoy sex with such an young sexually immature guy. I might be virgin but I know lot about sex, more than him. I also have dominant personality but not a sadist. I don't want to come across as someone who groomed him or such. We are both attracted to each other and want to have little fun. Should I go ahead?
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  • Okay, here's my piece of advice to you... Have sex with him! Social norms and age gaps are stupid! They mean nothing! Age is just a number; what really matters is his mind and him as a person. And if he happens to not be sexually experienced just remember that everyone was a virgin at one point. All it takes is some practice and exposure. And in the end, communication is more important than sexual experience. Everyone has their own taste, style, and desires. Sexual experience isn't going to be able to satisfy those desires. Only communication can do that. Guide him. Tell him what you want and I'm sure he'll be happy to please you. Same thing with him. Encourage him to tell you what he wants or wants to try. Encourage communication. You should totally have sex with him and even become casual sex partners/friends with benefits. All I'm saying is don't miss this opportunity. It's better to experience it then to be left thinking "what if".

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  • If you both can handle to have just a little fun and then forget about it without getting feelings/dependance on each other, then i think yes age difference might not be an issue.

    Who would think you groomed him? You guys are not gonna advertise you had fun together right?

    I guess yes you may want to guide him a bit. If that's okay you can think of going ahead.

    One big advantage i see is he is young so would get excited easily.
    Also this can be a drawback since he might release too soon.

    So take a call accordingly lol

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  • Go for it. It’s your body at the end of the day. I am 22 and I just lost my virginity to a 18 year old guy. I enjoyed it sooo much. If you really feel a connection with him then why not? Sex is fun and hot. I didn’t wait till marriage, even tho my dad is strict and religious and wanted me to. You’re an adult remember that and nobody can control your body.

  • Yes, go ahead and enjoy. That’s my vote.

  • "I might be virgin but I know lot about sex, more than him."

    No you don't.

  • Well if you are sure then go ahead.
    However as a reminder once you give a man hookup, you will most likely end up with another hookup guy again.

    So it's like endless circle. Be careful and not be addicted with it.

  • Uhm, you don't know anything about sex or you wouldn't be asking such a silly question. Oh well. '
    The answer is, sure, fuck anybody you want. It just won't be what you thought or hoped it would be. I can nearly guarantee it.

    Why don't you start with DATING, first.
    Seriously, this level of confusion is absolutely astounding.

  • u can if u think he can fuck u good and make u enjoy every bit of banging u then u should let him strip u naked and bang u harder

  • He's legal so go for it. He might not have all the experience but you can learn together.

    • Exactly! It's all about communication! Communication triumphs over sexual experience.

    • @SnuffleMuffins exactly

  • We only live once, right? So go for it, just make sure you use protection.

  • I hope he has a really huge cock for you!! 😘😘😘😊

    • So knock yourself out and fuck till you are both red and sore! Lol

  • Yeah it's ok and you should if you really like the guy. It not big of a age gap 7 years is pretty small but if it was 10 years or higher then maube even though older woman/men looks for a younger person to have sex with but thats it.

  • Yes, for sure. Lol

  • That is not a huge age gap. Give me a break.

    • I agree with you. Social norms and age gaps are stupid. And it's not even a huge age gap! If she finds him attractive then that's all that matters. And sexual experience doesn't really matter that much because every individual has their own style in what they like and want from their sex sessions. Communication is everything. A person can have better sex with communication than another person with sex experience but no communication.

    • @SnuffleMuffins exactly

  • He's 19 it's legal. If you started talking to him before it was leg6it may be a bit weird, but otherwise it's fine.

  • Do you even like him?

  • Guess that's up to you

  • Yup, do it

  • Whore

  • Yeah hook up with whom ever u want. Older or younger

  • Yessssss. Go for it. Have fun and dominate the hell out of him. Get what you want and don't think twice or feel bad whatever his age is. Get your cock, girl...

  • he's over 18 i see nothing wrong with that

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