Guys, Should I/How should I ask a guy to pay for my uber?

[Anonymous]

I have a purely physical relationship with a guy I met on Tinder. He lives fairly close but I always have to uber to his place because I have roommates. He's also lazy about coming over, many times in the past when my roommates weren't home he's just passed on coming over which I've talked to him about before, but he'll just say he'll come next time and doesn't. So I have to shell out ten dollars (both ways) every time I want to have sex. I feel the right thing for me to do is to ask him to call me the uber home that way we split evenly, but I feel weird doing that cause I feel like it's petty and I don't want to "ask for money" right after we have sex. Any advice on how I should bring it up/whether I should bring it up is appreciated

[Berethor]

Well it's still cheaper for each of you then paying for "escort services", ya while it seems like a petty kind of problem, it's a quite common problem for people who live far away from each other. If you was going on dates with him, splitting the bill on dates is a fairly normal thing nowadays, splitting the bill on a transport is much less common, but you can still ask him for that, especially considering that it's always you who come to him and not the other way around, I am assuming that as a guy he is interested in sex no less than you, so it should be fair to ask him to put little more investment in it, especially considering that he already save up on dates, even though with his laziness it seems like you more interested in it than him. Well you should make it clear to him that it's money for your transport and not for the sex itself, so he won't think of you as a "escort". :)

[Berethor]

I mean "than paying for".

[Kkaos]

I assume he's the one initiating and asking you over? If so, next time he asks, tell him that it's costing you too much money to get an uber there all the time. If he's into you, he'll provide a solution (whether that's him coming over when your roommates are out or him paying for you). If he doesn't do that then he's clearly not that into at which point there's no point in wasting your time with him any further, even if it is just sex.

[AustinMan]

I think it's fair for you to ask but you need to ask completely away from sex, strictly as an expense sharing arrangement.

[GingerGuy]

I'd do one of two things, either tell him you "can't afford it" when he asks you to come over, or, bring this up and tell him exactly how you feel. But bring it up when your talking to him next time (over text or whatever, not after sex lol). Just say something like "if you aren't going to come to me, then I think it's fair if we split the expense of me coming to you because I can't afford to all the time"

[humanearth]

say bitch your paying or you dont get the pussy

[DreamChaser541]

Basically just let him know that if he wants to have sex with you if he asks to split the cost cuz he's been flaking I'm coming over that's not okay

[MyExperience]

“I don’t have enough money in my account right now, can you call me the UBER home?”

[CuriousMufuxka]

Fiscally, I agree with you. Otherwise pay for the lay, lol both ways.

[bklynbadboy1]

Just straight up ask him if come over will you pay for my uber

[AkshiJanjua]

😂 looks like its his commission for having sex with u

[Anonymous]

You don’t.
Pay for your own fucking ass.
If you don’t want to do it, then don’t go over. It’s that simple.