Should I just accept that I am a submissive, receptive person in general?

[Anonymous]

I know its popular to complain about oneself being a pushover (for types like us) but i think i have to respect that part of it is just that i am a submissive reveptive woman regardless. To get mad and try to fight my entire personality is probably unrealistic and unhelpful.

I just am the type of lady who thinks nothing of going out my way to help someone who asked for something no matter how small. And to give people the time of day when they just want to vent or whatever. It gives me some kind of satisfaction to be submissive and receptive to the energy of others.

[MrOracle]

There's nothing wrong with being that way, but it's very important that you find a partner who respects and values you and doesn't exploit these traits in a negative way. As long as you've got that covered, you'll be fine.

[VIVANT]

That isn’t submissive. You are kind and willing to go to bat for people. It’s a strength.

[VIVANT]

🤔 hmm well put it this way... If someone was treating you badly would you put up with it? You can be kind as well as have boundaries. Strength doesn’t come in one form. Often people who present themselves as strong by being jerks are really quite cowardly.

[VIVANT]

Anyhow so far you sound like a stand up human being 🌺

[Asker]

Thank you, i didn't think it was being kind but maybe it is. And yeah i have trouble not being nice even when people are being disrespectful, maybe forgot to add that part in the question

[Hangry22]

Sure. Be everybody's doormat

[ColHathi]

You make it sound like it's a bad thing 🤔

[Ndirv5r8r]

I know so many people who are evil inside surrounding me. I see them using and abusing me and i can't do anything to stop it.

[ColHathi]

@Ndirv5r8r Well that's not on you, is it? They're the ones doing you wrong.

[NorthwestRider]

Sure, I accepted that I am submissive 😉

[MarkyMark77]

haha dont worry at all guys love taht. u have a man?

[Ndirv5r8r]

No guy ever likes me. They just try to get sex

[MarkyMark77]

@Ndirv5r8r awee can i see what u look like?

[Ndirv5r8r]

F u c k off.

[MarkyMark77]

@Ndirv5r8r whats ur deal?

[Xoirwinkan]

I think a big percentage of girls are actually submissive, but feminist propaganda tries to make women feel its wrong.

[Lunatic1]

Just accept it, it is who you are. People like you are just as needed as others.

[JohnO45]

sounds more like kindness than submissive

[DomEric]

Indeed love a good true submissive woman nothing wrong with embracing it

[ImNotCallinyYouDaddy]

Hell nah embrace it girl

[Anonymous]

Yes accept and be happy.

[Ndirv5r8r]

Aww thanks ☺

[Opinion Owner]

@Ndirv5r8r what happened

[Anonymous]

So long as u can find a good man ull b fine cause people like u do get taken advantage of

[Ndirv5r8r]

I am waiting for such man. Yeah we do get taken advantage of x

[Opinion Owner]

@Ndirv5r8r u gotta get good at reading people, learn to spot fuckbois they can be stealthy

[Ndirv5r8r]

Ur very right. Im learning

[MarkyMark77]

@Ndirv5r8r y didn't u answer me lol?