Should I keep him as a friend with benefits?

So this guy who I hooked up with and we have amazing sex is not wanting a relationship. is it ok for me to keep the situationship as the way it is? And still keep having sex cuz it’s fun and keep my emotions out of it? Or is that a bad idea?

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Superb Opinion

  • It's obviously a bad idea considering emotions aren't something you can control and sexual intercourse works on building bonds so putting the two ideas together is that at some point it's gonna go wrong, even if it's as simple as being ditched and replaced by another friends with benefits

Most Helpful Guy

  • Try it out and see if you and him can stay on the friends with benefits plan. It's tough but it's so fun and rewarding if you get it right. I mean who wouldn't want the availability of getting laid by someone you know and trust on a frequent basis? I had a few friends like that for a little while and whew it was pretty cool. One friend for oral, one for quick sex, one I got to teach how to do some things, one loved giving head, one loved the cock, another showed me how to have threeways

Most Helpful Girls

  • would you be ok if he has others alongside having you? if you can somehow remove emotions- its your choice but in the end someone going to get hurt, it never fails. its got bad idea written all over it but its your life, only you know what you are willing to except in it

  • Go for it but go on the pill condoms get boring for guys and he will pressure you for raw!

    . so glad you found someone like that what makes it amazing!

    I only found a few pateners like that mostly women!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • believe me once you give guy sex there's no hope for dating he's already got the perfect situation.

  • You won't keep your emotions out of it, and you are lying to yourself if you believe you can. You will get to a point where you think your magic pussy will make him want to commit, which will never happen.

  • Why are u asking strangers what u should do surly u should know what u want

  • If you can keep your emotions out of it, enjoy the sex.

  • You won't be able to keep your emotions out of it, I promise you. Not if the sex is hitting you different.

    You WILL get hurt

  • It depends on if you can truly keep your emotions out of the picture. If you let your emotions in it won't end nice.

  • Sounds like a good way to end up as a single mother

  • I say go for it. Just enjoy the great orgasms. What made this sex the best?

    • The guy is a Scorpio best in bed. Ever!

  • It works just do whatever you feels best for you

  • if his just there to have fun with sex and don't want a relationship then yes. keep him as a friend with benefits and don't force him into anything he doesn't wanna be a part of so long as his a good and trustworthly person.

  • Do you want one. The problem with most friends with benefits relationships is that sooner or later one falls for the other and wants a relationship, as opposed to just sex.

  • No, a good idea. Keep him as a friends with benefits and fuck when you want.

  • It's good idea if you don't have boyfriend and it depends on your thoughts

  • I like my friends with benefits.

  • In case..
    Do u trust him?
    I mean he won't leave u pregnant
    I have a lot friends with B by the way