Should I let him eat me?

Question

As you can tell by the title this is very sexual, my boyfriend had been wanting to "eat" me down there and when ever we set a date for it I always postpone it Because I'm naturally shy and nervous.. he always gets upset and aggravated with me when I do that... What should I do? 

This is a serious question

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

Only let him do that if you're 100% okay with it. If you're nervous or uncomfortable, it won't be all that pleasurable for you at all.

I was also a bit apprehensive about it initially. The first time my boyfriend did it was around the middle of sex that was really hot and I was even more into it than usual. He just went down there, I was too caught up in the moment to stop him. Before I knew it I realized when he was doing but it already felt amazing. Ever since then I'm not nervous about it at all so you can just let your boyfriend know when you're okay with it and he could just pop down there one day versus planning a day especially for it, which will make you being nervous almost inevitable.

Tbella15 · Accepted Answer

To begin with, if he makes you feel pressured to do it, then that isn't okay. But from what you've said it sounds like you aren't ready, so don't do it until you are perfectly comfortable and ready to do that. And he should respect the fact that you might not want to do that yet.

Michael-in-SC · Accepted Answer

It's not a good sign that he gets upset and aggravated when you say no. You should only do what you are comfortable doing. But with that said, you just might enjoy it some day. Give it some personal thought. Why do you think you are shy and nervous about having it done to you?

zorro8888 · Accepted Answer

Stop setting dates for something that should just happen naturally and if you're nervous about your body then you're not ready for sex. Your boyfriend is only getting aggravated because you tell him it's going to happen at a certain time just let things run it's course.