Should I let my boyfriend touch my boobs?

Question

Its been 11 months and I still feel insecure when he comes closer to my boobs while making out. Im 14 and I live in India , here we girls like to have certain boundaries , but i can't decide to cross this one or not. My boyfriend , doesn't have any problem when i ask him not to touch my boob , though. I secretly want him to get physical with me.. but i can't settle on the fact if my decision is right or wrong. I would feel loved to be helped. Thank you.

kxera · Accepted Answer

No, you should not let your boyfriend touch your boobs. You say you feel uncomfortable when he comes near you, so don't. If you are comfortable with him doing it, then sure because it's your choice.
But do NOT do anything you're uncomfortable with. & Don't let him try to force you into it. Only let him do it if/when you're ready.

live4love · Accepted Answer

Just set your own pace if your heart truly wants him to touch you there follow it, you'll look back and be able to say it was my heart that wanted it

lemonlimetime · Accepted Answer

Whoooaaa you're fourteen? Ok that's too young, even for America, to be doing those things.

Frost_Byt3 · Accepted Answer

I think 11 months is a long time and you sound like you have a pretty stable relationship. He also sounds like a gentlemen since he listens to you. But it is all based on wether you trust him or not. If you trust him, there is nothing wrong with it, as long as you are prepared and go about it safely.

Dtherockhaugen · Accepted Answer

Well first off, isn't it a bit young to be all kissy and sexual? But that I cannot say, because I had a girlfriend and she was 15 when we were about to.. So do what you please, get physical if wanted, just don't do something you won't regret.

godfatherfan · Answer

Your too young. fondling is not a big thing but wait til your 16.

Klaatu51 · Answer

do it only if u trust him though :)

Breakingbermuda · Answer

I'd wait until your fifteen.

Rcjh1987 · Answer

don't do anything your uncomfortable with

abundantlyrich · Answer

If you don't feel comfortable... then don't let him molest you.

A-Y-Y-Y--L-M-A-O · Answer

up to you, its a sign of trust letting him touch/feel a sexual part of your body, so its up to trust.

blueeyedlover · Answer

I would let him touch it but not suck them. If you really like him and its going somehere then he can suck them. Guys love boobs. Curious at 14 how big yours are cup size? you can PM me.