Should I listen to my guy friend and ask this guy ( through text) about his body count and if he’s okay with slow moving relationships?

I’m scared of ruining things with a good guy and we’ve only been texting for a month and only met twice in real life we’re also not dating yet but i do want to be something to him one day so please give me good advice since i am skeptical and kind of scared about asking this. The reason my guy friend told me this was because i asked how do i know if a guy is not fake/ just wants sex etc. and he told me to ask his body count and to tell him that I’m not looking for anything sexual right now and if he doesn’t agree to just leave him. The thing is I’m not one of those people that want to wait until marriage to lose their virginity I want to wait at least 5 months to a year of dating to do that so it’s not like i want to be 100 percent abstinent. I also don’t know how to bring this up through text and i will also have to tell him that I’m a virgin. So is this a no no or should I ask? If i should ask then how do i word it?
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  • Do what feels what's right for you

  • just ask him his body count, he's a man not a woman, you don't need to worry so much about how you say shit. Just fking say it and be clear

  • I would tell him roughly how long you want to wait. If he is willing, he is probably serious. I tell girls on the second date the earliest I will have sex with them.

  • Yeah, don't tell him over text if you don't wish to continue things with him

    It seemed I was a little late to this, oh well, sounds like you were okay irregardless

    • I only say that because I would totally kill all future planned if some girl revealed that about her

  • Listen you cause ask him but dont ask him if you can't handle the answer because it may be a little higher than you'd like it to be

  • I think you should be allowed to ask that, but he can ask questions too, also he can only hope he tells you the truth and you don't really know if he tells the truth.

  • If you wait you may lose your time with him (if he only wants sex), but if he's not, and you ask him right now, there's a probability he ghosts you as fast as you ask him. Otherwise, as I saw in some opinions here, you just can wait some time more (anyway, for now you're just texting each other and with the quarantine it's not tomorrow you'll see each other face to face). In general, guys who are just bored or want only sex they've little patience for this slow-time-relationship thing...

    • By slow time relationship do you mean relationship during the quarantine?

  • U can ask those questions face to face... wen u find u all really connected for now how u all texting ask about his relationships and his likes and dislikes

  • Yeah and what if he has a big thumping 13 inch big as apop can you better look at least

  • Yeah just give him a handjob. Or let him jerk of to you naked boobs.
    My first girlfriend used to dry hump me. The best one was where she was nude except for a thong and grinded herself up and down my boner until I came.

  • Don't worry you will be out of all the problems once this lockdown is over. You can ask him about everything about his sex life and his o*****. This way you will be able to connect with him and in the meanwhile he will also ask you about your body fitness. You can tell him about your sexy feelings and the the way your finger yourself. You will be more nearer to each other than before.

  • If you really want to bein a relationship with him so go and tell him about your virginity and also that you don't want to lose it before 1 year of relationship and wait for his response. One more thing just keep eye on him what he do where he go.

    • I want to wait around 5 months to a year. Also I don’t want to come off wrong by asking this question or make him lose interest in me

    • Yeah wait for 5 months. But tell him A year and if he has a little interest in you he will stay with you if he really wants you not your body i hope you understand

    • No need to ask him about his body count. He should be okay with slow relationship