Should I lose my virginity b4 marriage?

[Anonymous]

[PrudentGuy]

The question should not be "should" but "why"?

Ya, "Why save your virginity?"

Many save because of religious reason, which is admirable and respectable.

Others save because of their upbringing. These too have a noble purpose behind.

Yet other merely feel that its "chaste" not to have sex. If you're one of such, I like to say, sex does not make one chaste or not chaste.

Yes if that "chastity" is related to religion, then its not what I'm saying here.

What I'm saying is, the person save virginity for the sake of saving, or view others who does not save as "dirty" without any further resson.

Then in my opinion, these save their virginity and missed the purpose. And I think some had regretted doing so.

Hence, my Opinion is, know why you save your virginity. Then your endurance is meaningful. Otherwise I suggest, lose it already.

[AustinMan]

Giving up your V card: Avoiding a lifetime of misery ↗

[ushagomez]

I think the two should never be linked. Marriage is about making a commitment to be with someone, to have and to raise children. Whereas sexual pleasure is about giving and taking pleasure in the most normal and natural way with another person. To get married and then discover that you are not sexually compatible puts too much strain on marriage. So you should always at least have sex with a person you might marry before you do so. Equally it is best to enjoy the pleasure of learning how to be good at sex before you married.

[charlean]

Only if you want to



I personally don’t care if I’m an “old” virgin because i’m only going to do it with someone i’m comfortable with and at a time that i actually feel like it

[_the_moon_raider_]

Try it. It will help on honeymoon 🤣

[Berethor]

No it's bad idea, don't choose the slutty path, and you too young to be so desperate.

[bowenw]

It's your body. Do what you feel is best for you. I suggest not losing your virginity just for the sake of losing it to a random guy as it will be a lifelong memory.

[Andres77]

Don't be in a rush.
Let life happen.

[TylerM567]

Only lose it to someone that means a lot to you

[tyelehr12]

It's all your own decision to make, but I don't have any problem with the thought of someone losing their virginity before marriage

[Anonymous]

It would be great if you save it for someone special after marriage.