Should I lose my virginity bareback or use condom?

I’m a 21 years old female and currently I’m looking to get my virginity taken. I have some questions like I should do it bareback or use a condom. I saw similar questions on here but I’d like to ask it myself. I know going bareback is kinda risky but it is my first time after all, and I want to enjoy it to the fullest, leaving no regret, and I saw people saying the risk makes sex more exciting. What do you guys think? Also what guys from Tinder are like? Do most of them prefer condom or they just want to go bare anyway. I’m pretty sure I’ll find someone from Tinder to take my virginity.
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  • If this is some Tinder hookup, then of course you use condoms. And I would even suggest flavored ones for oral. But if this is a guy who you want to keep around, and you're on birth control, then just go online and get a test kit.

    Should I lose my virginity bareback or use condom?

    As for what the guys are like on Tinder, I don't know. But I just like smart guys (Sapiosexuality) And any Tinder guy that would just go raw-dog, probably has the IQ of a turnip.

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  • I’m calling BS on this! 💯% this is a guy! First what “Virgin” picks the username @Rebeccalovessex? If you’re a virgin, (and female) you’ve never had sex, so how would you know you love it? I mean… What if you had endometriosis? Then sex would be extremely painful and you damn sure wouldn’t love it, and wouldn’t know because you’ve never had sex! But most of all NO REAL WOMAN would ever pose a question like this and leave it up to the audience to decide whether she loses it “bareback” (risking disease and pregnancy) or with a condom! (And be safe). As for the guy’s who actually believe this… It NEVER ceases to amaze me what guys will fall for when it comes to a female named account, especially a “VIRGIN” with an overtly sexualized profile page! How dumb are you guys? Does NOTHING a set off your BS detector?

    • She probably masturbates and has some idea...

    • Darn it. I feel stupid as I didn't break it down like you did. *Standing Ovation *

    • Found a girl who thinks like me

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  • The risk does make sex more exciting, and it does feel way more enjoyable. If that's what you want to do, just do it bareback and take the morning-after pill.

    But if you want to be responsible at the expense of sexiness and possible the risk of killing the vibe a bit (but it's still responsible to do so) is ask him to get tested before you so anything bareback with him. I'd imagine you'd be pretty discontent if you happened to catch an STD due to him being bareback. But I guess a lot of people don't do that and most are fine so I guess you can roll the dice and cross your fingers if you want.

  • I suggest for your own peace of mind have your partner use a condom (If they are male). and get yourself started on another method of birth control one of the many pills, implant, IUD, or cap, and back that up with a spermicidal gel, the last thing you'll want is an "Oops pregnancy", I've had this discussion with all of my nieces as they were too embarrassed to have it with their mothers.
    But if and when you decide to loose your virginity, TAKE YOUR TIME, it is not a race you have all the time in the world. And don't let yourself be bullied into doing it. Avoid Tinder like the plague.

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  • Bareback only when in a deeply committed relationship unless it's anal, that's OK.

    Otherwise use a condom, yes! ... now do what mother tells you! ... lol

    Should I lose my virginity bareback or use condom?
    • I will take it under consideration lol

    • ... :)

  • Unless you want to risk pregnancy, which is a very high risk with no protection, or worse yet, HIV or another venereal disease, don't do this without protection.

    Your first time will most likely not be enjoyment to the fullest anyway. There is usually some pain. You need to be with someone who cares for you and who will take it slow and doesn't want to leave you knocked up.

    To me risky sex is scary, not exciting. You need to ask and get the person tested for STDs before you have sex with them. There are too many diseases you can catch: HPV, syphilis, gonorrhea, HIV, herpes, that will cause you LIFELONG problems. Take your time and know and like someone who you consider a friend, not some random who's "taking your virginity."

    There are loads of penises who are looking for a vagina. And there're the worst sorts to engage in ANYthing with. Be careful and take good care of yourself.

  • Don't go bareback unless you know his sexual history and trust him... otherwise you'll get STD's. Guys from tinder and hookup sites often have STD's... so do women who use them. Condoms don't protect against all STD's but help.

  • While you don't necessarily need to love your first time guy, it would help a lot if it's someone you trust and that cares for you.
    Use some kind of birth control, if not a condom then perhaps a implant.
    If bareback and not in a stable relationship also make sure that you're both getting tested.

    And honestly, don't expect to enjoy that first time.
    It's not impossible of course.
    But it's often a painful and vulnerable experience for a girl.

  • Sounds more like you are trolling as a guy. If a girl was really serious she would be an idiot not to use some form of protection. I've heard it before, "How did I get pregnant? It was my very first time?"

  • It should depend on how well you know the man who will take your virginity. Is he clean, is he a tramp? You could pick up some horrible disease. It should also depend on if you're on birth control, or if you are looking to get pregnant on your first experience. Don't go into this so casual. Find a man that you love, and who loves you back.

  • How to say you are a guy with a pink account, without saying you are a guy with a pink account…

  • The desperation is strong with this one

  • You should use a condom if it's just some random guy off tinder

  • Use a condom, your first times not that special. One day you're gonna want to do it without one and then you'll really appreciate the difference.

  • Yea bareback feels better, but it's more risky, maybe you should wait until marriage.

  • If you are losing it to a stranger use protection STIs are a thing

  • definitely condom, he could have an sti or std.

  • Well, the answer is in your statement...
    Leaving no regrets.
    So the real question is...
    Are you prepared to be a parent?
    Possibly by yourself?
    If answer is yes, then...
    Are you sure
    Sweetie, as a standard in all matters...
    Protect yourself

  • God help us all.

  • If you want to risk gonorrhoea, syphilis, HPV, HIV, chlamydia, trichomoniasis, etc on your first time out go right ahead and go bareback.
    How is this even a question, what the hell happened to sexual education 🙄

  • Bareback and go wild, then just take a plan B afterwards

    • YAS or I’ll just do it during my safe period!

    • There's always risk with that, especially if they cum inside you. But with plan B, you can safely let them pump you full as much as you like

    • Sounds like I need buy some. I don’t wanna live in fear after the fun experience lol

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  • Bareback requirements:
    1. Contraception. "Pull out" is so risky it doesn't count.
    2. A blood test, or a partner you know and can trust to be truthful. If he's having sex with others, then he needs to be tested.

  • To be fair, at your age and level of ignorance, it's best you avoid all that for another couple of years yet.

  • LOL, make him use a condom, and make it someone you met IRL and can trust rather than some guy looking for a hookup on Tinder.

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