Should I participate in a partner’s fetish?

I don’t have any kinks. I just like men and french kissing, foreplay and the missionary sex position. If a partner seems perfect except for a fetish, should I just compromise on it and not discuss it with anyone else?

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  • First, it's only a fetish if that fetish is the only way for them to have sex or get sexually aroused. Otherwise it's a kink.

    And, sure, participate in their kink IF you're comfortable. Or curious. Or are okay making them happy. But you don't have to and don't let yourself be uncomfortable with it. Certain kinks (or fetishes) are not for everyone -- that's okay.

  • If you don't feel degraded by it, if it doesn't harm you in any way, if no other people will get to participate with you sexually then, if it is no big deal, then do the fetish with him.

    It depends on what the fetish is.

    You are anonymous so just tell us what it is.

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  • It depends what the kink or fetish is. If is something u want to try or enjoyable then yes.

  • It depends on how the kink or fetish would make you feel.

    • If you feel degraded in a negative way, or it is painful and unpleasant then no. But you might find that if you participate in his fetish, you'll get turned on by how horny you are making him and that might add an extra buzz to your love making. You might also discover you're into things you didn't realise.

  • It never hurts to be a bit adventurous as long as doing his fetish is safe, legal and in No way hurts you. It would be easier to adbisevyou if we knew what the fetidh is, feel free to dm me if you'd like to chat about it in a private chat.

    • I do agree with you foreplay and french kissing is great have you tried Australian kissing?

  • Never understood what a true "fetish" is supposed to be. In my 20's I loved a girl to wear stockings and garter belt. My girlfriend indulged me. Is THAT a 'fetish" ?

  • Some things go too far, others don't. What kind of fetishes/fixations does he have?
    There are sexual kinks are are largely mainstream, such as fingering a guy anally or cunnilingus and fellatio, which can be acceptable if you can.

  • Just do whatever you feel comfortable with in the moment.

  • Why should you discuss it with anyone else anyway? Relationships are supposed to be private.

    And yeah, you can compromise with them if you want. But if you don't want to do it, you don't have to do it. It's entirely your choice. You're a free human being.

  • Yeah I say just compromise and maybe he will do something you might like and the fetish he has he wants to do you might like it also.

  • are you ok with doing it?

    • If you want to talk about it, feel free to dm me

  • i have fetish, like eating her pussy

  • Being in a companionship it is always a compromise. He probably compromises with a lot of stuff that you do. It is good to have a fetish.

  • Yes participate in his fetish if it's not too gross or intrusive. No, don't talk about his fetish to random others (except us obviously. Your secrets are safe here.)

  • Depends if u r comfortable with it

  • No , I think you are dont going,

  • It depends on what it is

  • Elvis has left the building.

  • depends on the fetish

  • Yes just do it no matter what the fetish is.

  • What is the fetish? Can't really answer your question without that context.