Should I Refrain from having any kind of relationship or sexual contact with a man since I’m not pretty enough to be a porn star?

I feel like those are the only women that can keep a man happy, so I don’t feel like I deserve any attention from men. Men don’t like me anyway…. they make fun of me for my appearance and the few guys that I’ve dated have made it clear that they were only with me out of desperation or had ulterior motives (using me for money, etc). I am depressingly lonely and I would love to fall in love, but I don’t feel like I deserve it. Love and happiness are only for sexy women.
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  • Stay single because your self image and confidence is the problem. Would you be attracted to a guy with no self confidence? Probably not (as most women aren't), and it goes both ways. Society makes you women feel like you have to look like these women, and it's not true AT ALL. But I have the feeling nobody can tell you that because you have no self confidence. And therefore, shouldn't date because it's only going to create problems for you. You need counselling or therapy or something to change your view and get your self confidence. Confidence is attractive, not just to you women, but to us as well. Insecurities are one thing, we all have them, but this goes beyond that (and is not attractive).

    • And like @kyleelyn199723 said, there's also much more to you as a person, and not all guys look at (if they are looking for a relationship). Also you commented on sex with your ex husband, he was an A&^hole. You took that personally (as anyone would in that situation) but there's nothing wrong with you, nor does it mean you're bad at sex. He did nothing but help lower your self esteem. For most guys, there's no such thing as "too wet" and is only a good thing. Even if he didn't like that feeling of your wetness (which I understand in a way, example I don't like having to have a shower sometimes because I don't like getting wet or the feeling), that's HIM, not you personally.

    • Men’s magazines, strippers & mainstream porn all show the same type of woman. If it’s not what men want then they wouldn’t be constantly featuring those types of women. When was the last time you saw a short, pale-skinned Irish girl in a porn mag? It doesn't happen bc Men don’t like it

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  • My girlfriend is not even close to a porn star. Also my family is a lot richer (my family is the 1%) than her's, so money is not a concern for me. Yet I am with her, and have been for over 3.5 years. I think most guys wouldn't find her sexy. She's attractive to me, but I met sexier women daily when I was a transporter in a hospital. I met many more unattractive women, but a 60+ year old that can't stand on her own has little going for her.

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  • Why do you think looks is the only thing that contributes to a relationship. Secondly if more than one guy has been using you for money, that means you are being a doormat for men to walk all over you and that is a huge contributor as to why you are having these issues. Your first step is you need to gain a backbone and do things that higher your self esteem

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  • No? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You may not have the biggest ass or tits but doesn’t mean you can’t rock a man’s world in bed

    • My ex-husband refused to touch me down there unless he put rubber gloves on because he said it was disgusting how wet I got. So Not only am I ugly, but I am lousy in bed too apparently.

    • That sounds incredibly Odd.. I never heard of a man who doesn’t like a woman being too wet. That’s one man, he doesn’t voice everyone else

  • I'm gonna be honest but that's a pretty dumb resign not to have a relationship. Being in a relationship isn't just about sex. It's about loving the person you're with, regardless of what they look like or where they're from.

  • The real question is, why aren't you working to become sexier?
    Change your hair color, eat right, lose weight, wear a pushup bra, etc.. and you can look sexy just like any pornstar. Women have it easy.

    • That’s not true. I have had my hair dyed all different colors. I have spent hundreds of dollars getting makeup lessons and having professional makeup artists do makeup for me. I have bought all kinds of sexy lingerie, sexy stripper shoes, Tried to learn how to lap dance, And everyone (male and female) keeps telling me how plain I am. I can’t do anything to fix my height so I’ll never be tall like a model. I don’t have the hundreds of thousands of dollars needed to get a nose job or fix my lopsided eyelid that doesn’t open as wide as the other one. I can’t go back in time and be 20 again. Once a woman hits 30, she loses a ton of sex appeal just because of her age not being in the 20s anymore. Also, nobody cares about boobs anymore…. it’s all about the gigantic ass. So I would also need breast reduction surgery and then go get ass implants which I cannot afford because I don’t have $200,000 of spare cash just lying around

    • Uh most dudes want a biitch who's tiny to throw around not a gigantic tall ogre. And the eyelid thing is probably from lack of sleep. How much do you weigh? Send me a DM with a pic I'll tell you straight up on what you need to do.

    • No the eyelid thing is something I’ve had for as long as I can tell… my childhood pictures have it too. To be honest, I’m wondering if I don’t have some kind of fetal alcohol syndrome. My mother did not take care of herself when she was pregnant with me. She has admitted to chain-smoking but I’m wondering if there wasn’t drinking involved also. There’s too many little weird things about me that just don’t add up.

  • Men really don't have strict standards like you think.

    • But they do. They have very strict standards and they only ignore those standards if they’re completely desperate. Then they spend the whole time degrading that woman because she doesn’t live up to their high standards even though they’re still f*cking her

    • I literally don't know a single man like that. I am not like that, my family is not like that and none of my male friends are like that. Stop going for pretty boy players.

  • That's not true, someone will still love you if you are kind, caring and loyal.

    • Being kind and caring and loyal has gotten me nowhere in life….. All it’s done is gotten me abused, manipulated, degraded and bankrupt

    • You are meeting the wrong guys, that's why. It isn't you, it's them, thanks for the down vote.

    • Asker, being kind and caring and loyal did not get you abused, manipulated, degraded and bankrupt. Choosing the wrong guy is what did that. You had to really go through some poor thinking to end up with him. Start over and think about the guys you come in contact with. It is usually very easy to see the bad ones like you chose.