Should I shave or keep it natural down there?

So tomorrow I'm (F16) going to have sex for the first time with a friend (M19). And I have a dilema: should I shave or keep it natural down there? When I shave it's not fully smooth ofc but when the hairs are too long then it get's itchy and kind of uncomfortable, so I'm more team shave. What do you think?
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  • Fact is, when I was 19 or 20, my first sex was with a 16-year-old junior in high school. Honestly, for me as a then, virgin, I did not really know much about a girl's genitals, her pubic hair, (with or without) so to be blunt, and maybe 'gross" all I was really interested in was getting my penis in her vagina. (I did go down on her, first, and honestly do not remember how much pubic hair she had.

    After the fact, I prefer to see a very full bush or, completely pubic hair covered labia. When I knew the difference, as an adult, I always preferred a lot of hair, as it was just the "natural' look.
    For whatever reason, I think porn movies, showing shaved pussies, seemed to set the 'trend' for a long time, and I STILL do not understand why?

    What I would NOT do, is let someone else decide for you, how you should keep your pubic hair trimmed, shaved, lasered, or anything else that you feel uncomfortable with, after all, it is YOU that have to WEAR it after the sex is over. To hell with what some bozo thinks you should do with it.

    Just sayin' "iamawalkinparadox'

    Bruce

Most Helpful Guy

  • Bare is lovely. But it depends on how hairy you are.

    When I was your age, my girlfriends just has cute, unsculpted puffs on the tops of their clefts that didn't spread across their tummies from thigh to thigh, all the way down their labia, or into their groin pits and butt cracks. That tends to happen on older women. The lower half of their labia were naturally bare and fully visible. I didn't have to part underbrush or lick pubes.
    I even had a 30-31 year old girlfriend when I was in my 30s who was the same way. She was naturally glabrous and blond with fine hair. Her muff was freaking adorable.

    Because of porn, a lot of people these days prefer cleanly waxed or shaved. I love it, too, and think it's as attractive as shaved legs and underarms. A bare coochie is the cutest thing.
    But a cute fluffy-muff like I described above can be absolutely adorable. Young guys probably have no idea, though. You're probably stuck having to shave, which might be a shame.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Do what makes you feel most comfortable. You'll be inside your own head enough as it is losing your virginity to need to worry about that.

  • Never do what you don't want to where sex is involved, and no candid photos on his phone.

    • No it's 2 ways relationship, both should respect each other needs

    • "buntyp' you hit the nail on the head. She is young and your 'caution' to her is correct.

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  • It’s all very personal, the only two important ones are you and him (as 2nd). My preference for both is clean shaven but many people feel otherwise. It is however an added benefit if you like to watch…

  • Shaved!!!

    You see I never met a guy that liked it natural that didn't or wouldn't fuck a shaved one. But I have known men who got into it with natural women, and they wanted no part of it!

    Too much bush turns 50% of men off, and of course there are guys with kinks that like it... but a far major probably don't. A the ones that do, would still hit it shaved.

  • You should keep it in a way that makes YOU happy and comfortable.

  • Don't shave for the first time right before you have sex. When you start shaving you're likely to develop razer bumps and other irritation as your skin is not used to it, and that will make for a less comfortable situation. Trim if that makes you more comfortable/confident, but don't shave.

  • Everyone in the world are followers.
    People will say it has to be shaved bald or otherwise it's not going to be clean.. most of my girlfriends have been bald girls I have dated has been bald I am sick and tired of both I have dated girls with a bush before and if they keep it clean it tastes just as good as a bald one and sometimes better how do you say do what you want to do do what makes you happy because I know for me I hope the next girl for nugget I hope she has the biggest Bush ever so I feel like I am having sex with a woman not some bald pussy it's up to you you know you have to do what you want to do do what your boyfriend want you to do car figured out I think it's over the big bush is very very hot and very sexy

  • Shave. he might want to go down on you.

  • I think this isn't a choice that's going to impact anything in any serious way. Don't overthink this then.

    • This☝️

  • You don't have to go all out shaved, a close trim is just as good.

  • I always prefer trimmed / manicured :)

  • Trim it up so you look hot with some hair left

  • Your 16 and he's 19
    Let's start with finding some one closer to your age

  • I like a girl who is all natural down there

  • Do what you like. I wouldn't mind either way but I PREFER shaved because they look SO much cuter, that way!

  • Whatever you're comfortable with. Personally I prefer shaved if given a choice.

    • Even if it's not fully smooth?

    • Personally I prefer shaved and not fully smooth over natural. I like to see what I'm doing and not get a mouthful of hair. Feel free to PM if you wish.

  • Shave

  • Natural is better.

  • I know this situation has already passed and my opinion is late however, I would enjoy being either shaved or trimmed. I do it because I like it better and strongly suggest you do the same! On a side note how was your first time! Message me if you like

  • Whichever you are more comfortable with

  • My personal preference, it is a personal preference, is to be fully shaven there.

  • For sure shave, otherwise you will turn him off

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