Should I stay friends with benefits?

So I’m friends with benefits with my ex. I wish I was still with my ex tbh but he hasn’t showed signs of liking me. We do some things we did as a couple during the buildup before sex like kissing. He doesn’t after. I also asked him what I should say if my roommates ask if we’re back together, he said I don't know.

So I’m guessing he definitely doesn’t want me anymore (correct me if I’m wrong). I’m fine with friends with benefits but my emotional side gets the best of me at times and then I get sad when he does show more signs of not liking. Also the last time we did it I wasn’t turned on much. I think it’s hard for me to get turned on if I know the guy is only here for my body so

What should I do? I’m thinking about giving him 1 more chance and then dipping.
Updates:
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I've decided not to stay friends with benefits. Thank you everyone for your advice!
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Just leave this gut if he really wants you then he will cuz nowadays you have to be with someone who wants you, values, tells ur mistakes and is really there to bring the best in u even though you don't love them
    Time decides the future

  • in my opinion don't stay friends with benefits. Men would fight for you to have sex with him. If you're not getting what you want from one guy, move on.

Most Helpful Guys

  • 1 more chance for what he is getting everything he wants u are the 1 that wants more lol

    • 1 more chance for him to give me what I want. i’ll stay if the sex is good, but it’s not even, because im not turned on beforehand

    • But he dont want to be with u he just wants the sex

    • .. im okay with that? A relationship is just a want. I’m fine without it, but im not okay with friends with benefits if the sex is bad, the main purpose for that IS sex.

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  • Giving him one more chance for what?

    • 1 more chance for good sex. i’ll stay if the sex is good, but it’s not even, because im not turned on beforehand

    • It’s not going to be good because he’s an ex

    • You know how sex can be good right?

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  • He’s totally only there for no strings sex with someone he already knows. You’ve been friends with benefits zoned.

  • It really depends on why you broke up.

    • It was pretty much my fault we broke up. He didn't like who I became. I was complacent.

    • So if you can prove that you've changed he may give you another chance. Yet, since it wasn't anything he did to cause the breakup, you have to make yourself desirable as a girlfriend again to him.