Should I suck my boyfriend off?

My boyfriend gets a boner when ever we kiss and he always pushes it against me. He's never tried to get me to do anything I'm not comfortable with and was understanding when I told him I wanted to wait till marriage for sex. But I feel like I am ready to go a little further. Do you think I should give him blow job? And what do I do if he trys to get things to go even further after that?
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  • BJ HJ better than vag sex = change of life devoted to baby potential
    Can't say that's much of a loving boyfriend if he's allowing his little head to pester you for attention
    So go ahead so long as NONE of the sperm gets ANYWHERE near your vag... like poison.

    Of course this guy's history is that he'll want more for his little pest head, which takes precedence over your wishes and his caring for you.

    Usually, 1-3 HJ BJ orgasms takes care of this drive for the time being but someday - perhaps drunk - the event will happen and I wonder if both BC Pills + rubber will be in place to save the day... your career, life ahead?

  • I was in the exact same situation as you a while back! I was in my first relationship with a guy and I could tell when he was turned on and he tried to initiate different things but he knew I was inexperienced and wanted to wait so he respected that. We only dated for a month and I wanted to wait longer to do anything sexual until I felt more comfortable with him.

    So honestly girl if you feel comfortable with him and you feel like taking things to the next step then follow your instinct, don't feel pressured to sexually satisfy him if you're not 100% sure you'll be comfortable with it x

  • Only if you want to. If you feel like giving him a blowjob, go for it. If you don't feel comfortable doing that, then don't. If you do that and he tries to go further, you can always stop him.

  • If you feel like you want to, and he has been respecting your wishes, go for it. Reward him for waiting and not pushing you.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes, in my opinion you should begin sucking him off each and every time you give him a boner. Here is why. First, I think it is great that you want to wait until marriage for sex. But in the meantime his balls are filling up with sperm every few hours and if you are not helping him to empty out his balls at least once a day, and probably twice a day, then he may start to look for another girl to do it. Blowjobs are the easiest at least messy way to do that for him. Plus the fact the you are eating his sperm will make him closer to you and he will wait until marriage to fuck you.

  • I think it would be alright to give him a BJ. I don't think he'll try anything more if you're not ready. He'll be just so satisfied with you giving him a BJ anyway.

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  • Yes, you must definitely satisfy his erection with your mouth or he might become so sexually frustrated that one day he will break and end up deflowering you

  • Actions have consequences. If you give a BJ, he will expect more. Keep it as it is.

  • Fun fact: did you know sperm cures bad breath.

    Funny world isn't it.

  • Only progress if you feel that you WANT to do so. Don't do it because you feel like you HAVE to do so. Pressure to do things isn't good.

  • Your boyfriend is weird. My boyfriend never gets a boner its disgusting

    • Why is it disgusting?

  • Yes go for it girl

  • No, do not do that he will lose reject for you.

  • If you love him and he loves you

  • you're a girl, it means you got control over the situation so just tell him and let him know the limits

  • Yeah you can

  • Yeah

  • Give the guy a blow job or he might go elsewer and u might even enjoy it xx

  • Yeah baby

  • give him your pretty face and let him use you

  • If you do and he likes it, he'll want to return the favor, if you'd like that, then go for it!

  • Always

  • Just let him cum. Then he will be satisfied and won't try to have usuall sex. But in that case only he will have fun, not you.

  • Well it's 21st century, sex is common in a relationship nowadays.. But it really depends on well you guys are prepared for it.. In particular you, it should not come by force from your partner but by the trust, respect and willingness to share your soul to him.
    In my case, we had mutual agreement to have the sex part only after marriage till then only the foreplays😘
    This in means also keeps the relation active and i believe will make a girl respect the guy.

  • Do it if you want to, and he gives consent

  • Do what you like to do, but the problem is if you start with a bj, then will lead to further stuff, what I suggest wait till getting married, some guys if they get free milk won't buy the cow lol

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