he talks dirty during sex.. and one of them is "you're nothing, you're just my cum dump" . somehow I felt like he was being honest that I'm just a place for the benefits.
I'm asking this because he doesn't really shows how much he cares about me..
Your last scentence caught my attention. That is something you should address first. Why do you feel like he does not care about you? Is it because he doesn't show any romantic gestures? Or is it something else?
Dirty talk during sex is quite normal. However, escelation of it to mean something is when you are not happy outside sex. For example, if your partner treats you equal in relationship, ask for your advise with major life decisions, shares his day etc, (depending on what their love language is), no matter what they call you in bed, you know what they feel about you.
I love him.. I don't know what to do now
Not exactly sure what else is bothering you. You can text me if you dont want to say this publicly.
outside sex, we don't talk much about non sexual things, he doesn't share much about his days,
A lot of us like to talk dirty during sex but feel inhibited. It works best if neither feels it is derogatorive to speak dirty. In sex and the city one of the characters calls her boyfriend fucker during sex. Apt. I'd like it.
I think he is is just showing possessiveness. Despite the bad press, possessiveness is not a bad thing. We feel possessive of a girl we are deeply committed too.
If you are a smart girl you will raise your hurt feelings at him calling you his cum dump after sex submissively and let him mollify you.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!There is dirty talk and then there is weird dirty talk and that is where he is at. I think what he said is kinda rude. Tell him that it is a turn off for you. How often do you two have sex? Does he do it all the time?
You should not be referred to as a "cum dump". What are your thoughts on this?
Yeah. I mean. He probably does if he says it. Why are you sleeping with him?
He’s probably being honest, from the way you are describing it.
Don't take stuff like that very seriously, no. Are you a fuck buddy though?
Most guys wouldn't word it exactly like that if they cared about you. There's a good chance this guy is just using you.
Well that's fucked up. :/
Sounds like you are just his cum dumpster. Find a guy who values you more than that.
We say a lot of things during sex we don't think during everyday life. What is it they say, we want a lady in the parlor and a whore in the bedroom? Something like that.
All sorts of things get said in the heat of the moment. I would question him on it.
No lol. That's just a sex mode.
He probably just thinks it turns you on, just tell him to stop if it doesn't.
I don't think any guy with serious feelings would ever say that to his partner unless it was agreed upon role play or dom/sub. Otherwise, it's just rude and self-indulgent.
It's dirty talk during sex. As such, it is not meant to be taken seriously. If it turns you off you should also let him know
Dirty talk during sex is something hot and not necessarily it's related to how he feels about you
he's a fucking idiot the term is cum dumpster or pump n dump
Sex mode is different for anyone
How does it make you feel
Dirty talk is never serious. It’s just like when you say how much you want to experiment with the same sex during the act. It’s just roleplaying.
Id say he's being truthful.
what do I do
Dumping him would be a good idea.
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