Should I talk to my boyfriend about my MFM threesom fantasy?

[Disha10]

Knowing that he is really protective and possessive dominant man. he never showed any sign that he would be okay to share me.

[Finchie40]

If it’s fantasy you really want to do then yes you should talk to your boyfriend about it , He might be against it or he might be ok with it ,? if you compromise , He might ask you for 3 some as well with you and another girl. So really ask yourself if this is something you really want to do or is it just the thought of it that turns you on? Usually bringing a 3rd wheel into a relationship can cause havoc in your relationship causing you and your boyfriend to possibly break up , son it’s best to have a serious talk about it to him

[MikeTheBartender]

If this is a true DieHard fantasy few, it sounds like this guy might not be the right guy for you. Did you do threesomes with other girls? Then maybe I would bring it up, but otherwise I would consider dumping him.

Answer my dirty poll when you have time.

Girls, Your man wants your tongue in his dirty spots, which do you choose?

[BlackBeauty90]

@disha10 - obviously you're afraid that he'll punch a wall or you as a "possessive dominant man" - words that are about as appealing as saying he's covered in shit - if you told him this in person.

Otherwise why ask here. It's not like we're mind readers. If we were, we'd not be on GAG we'd all be working in Vegas making millions.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I might be wrong, but In my opinion you should be honest about your fantasies with your partner.

After all, he is not only your romantic partner but a sexual partner as well, so you can at least, share and see where it goes.

If he’s not into it, then you might find some alternatives.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I mean, you two can find alternatives of that sexual act, together.

[Jennz6]

Maybe 🤔 🤷‍♀️

[chrissykerdock]

no don't it could end the relationship... but i don't know your boyfriend or his feelings... but generally speaking he would get jealous

[RobT312]

Sure why not. I think couples should talk about everything

[tzdc21]

Don't do it. Just don't. It won't end well.

[Miristheiss]

Yeah but she already has this twisted desire in her. Why hide it? The boyfriend deserves to know. He should get to make an informed decision.

[tzdc21]

@Miristheiss Of course the boyfriend has a right to know. I'm just saying that he shouldn't go through with it.

[summiter]

Sure talk to him... nothing ventured nothing gained. How is your sex life with him currently? Do you know another guy who you want to join you?

[Samantha36]

Yes talk to him if its what you want. Be prepared for his reaction though. When I met my current boyfriend I mentioned I wanted a mfm threesome and he said no there would be no way he'd share me. Fast forward 2 years and he mentioned a mff threesome. The thought of it made me jealous so we are both now very comfortable with each other and our fantasies will just be fantasies...

[Thirsty4more23]

@samantha36 not to be too into your business but if they’re just fantasies now, does that mean when you’re in the mood and he’s not around, u fantasize about ur mfm?

[Samantha36]

@Thirsty4more23 no it means we bring our fantasy's into our sex life. So we talk about it together, watch porn together and when we are fucking we talk about it. He will say things like 'I bet you'd love to have another dick in you right now'... we both know it's only fantasy and it's fun

[Thirsty4more23]

Oh interesting. Thanks for sharing.

[pierre7i]

I hate to tell you but I think he'll never agree to an mfm with you !

Same for me, the thought of participating in a sexual session with another man involved is totally abhorrent to me !!

Now ffm's, which I have enjoyed several times with 2 very close female friends of mine (both bi-sexual) are an entirely different matter for me ! But mfm, sorry, never !

Have you ever thought about an ffm? He might be happy to try that?

[Miristheiss]

I'd be more than "not ok" with it. You can't tell me that you want my permission to have sex with another man, all I have to do is say "ok" and then she'll then have sex with someone else. That is a deal breaker. If she evens brings up a threesome we are done. No way that is going to work.

[slatyb]

Yes, you should. He may decline but that's ok.

[RedInnocent68]

Absolutely! Some fantasies are just that, but if you don’t say anything, you’ll never know if there might be a chance. Even if there’s not, the convo might enhance your dirty talk, or give you ideas for toy play, like wearing a butt plug, or sucking him off while he uses a dildo on you, telling you how hot you look getting DPd, so you can embrace the fantasy without feeling guilty.

[Miristheiss]

If that is something you really want and you are fixated on that then yes, absolutely tell him.

He deserves to know that you, deep down, want to have sex with another man and you are willing to let another man have you.

If he is wise he'll just dump you on the spot and move on. Either way, the truth needs to be known so people can make informed decisions about their futures and not be deceived by fake realities.

[Drewtate]

If you are thinking this way then your husband is not enough for you

[sheikalana]

No, most men won't accept such thing.

[bowenw]

Yes tell him it's a fantasy and see how he reacts.

[TCredo]

what a hot thought... if you do and he wants to do it... i will gladly volunteer to make it happen :)

[elizamichale1]

No harm in trying I guess

[Jennz6]

Try try again

[elizamichale1]

@Jennz6 hehe yrue

[Andres77]

Tell him you dreamt about it and see his reaction. Just because you have a fantasy doesn’t mean you actually want to do it. Sometimes you really do want to do it but it’s better left just a fantasy.

[Jennz6]

That sounds like fun

[soe11]

• Absolutely your choice.
• My advice is be careful.
• Think about sencetive of subject.
• We do talk about each other.

[Alex-Snow]

I would otherwise nothing will ever happen. How is your sex life with your boyfriend? Does it need improving?

[LiamJHayden]

You know his personality. Just beware that that topic can end relationships.

[kellytheman]

You probably should tell him anyway and it’s just fantasy. Even though he might be a dominant or possessive man he might be okay to outlive your fantasy but if he showing many signs that he doesn’t want to share you he probably won’t. You could always make a deal and live out one of fantasy’s of his you can have MFM or if your willing maybe add another instead. Me and my girlfriend had a MFM threesome for her birthday and said she liked but she also said girls are more fun.