Should I tell her that I don't have a big dick?

This girl I've been talking to for a few months now seems to think (Im assuming) I have a big dick because she says I give off "big dick energy" and she was like "I'm sure you're big" even though she said she honestly doesn't care about size as long as not too big or too small (I think many girls just say this though). We haven't had sex yet, but we will be soon. I was thinking whether I should be upfront and tell her I'm not big, but average (I'm about 6.3). I just don't want her to be disappointed assuming she's expecting bigger.
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Superb Opinion

  • She should not care. You have a normal size dick and if you know how to use it (and your tongue) she should not care.

    Have previous girlfriends cared about your dick size? If it works for sex and when you jerk off who cares about the size.

    • Yeah just about every previous girl has either said I wasn’t big enough or I found out from one of her friends from her gossiping about me. I don’t think my technique is poor though.

    • If they cared so much about dick size then perhaps they were not right for you

Most Helpful Guy

  • Girls who talk about "Big dick energy" like they know anything are so cringy.
    Guys can be confident for many different reasons and sometimes big dick guys have zero social skills from what I've seen.
    She's sounds kind of bratty.
    Just say you have a normal dick and she can either accept it or fuck off.

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  • Time to stop waiting and show her.

  • She said "I don't have big breasts, I wear a padded bra'. I said, "I don't have a big penis" !

    In bed, she said, " You said you did not have a big penis" ! Wait and see. Not a deal breaker

  • Honesty's always the best policy, saying goes. 😊

  • Go with your best moves and she will love it.

  • No! If that is your real size, than I think she is right. And even if you aren't, why spoil the moment? Let it be a mystery till your ready to have sex.

  • Many girls say they dont care about size, yet still comment on it, so secretly the prefer one bigger than smaller. That being said, you are average, so she won't be disappointed. Big dick energy is just as much confidence. So, dont tell her, but let her experience it for herself.

  • Don’t worry about it.. You're probably fine.
    I’m guessing that you have a normal relationship.
    Just be a couple, if you care or love one another, everything will work.

  • Don’t say anything it’s not like you are super small or something. 6 inches isn’t that bad

  • I wouldn't tell her anything other than telling her to not get her hopes up.