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Should I tell my boyfriend about my sexual past?

I’m 21 and I am dating this boy of the same church as me. He’s handsome, funny and... very pure. The only sexual sin that he had done was to lose his virginity at the age of 15, but now he want to live a pure life, with me. He once told me that there is no secret between us but I’m affraid to confess him about all the things I masturbate or the porn I watched. I didn’t watched just a normal porn but... real nasty porn, like SM, zoophilia, pedophilia and other hentai shits and he doesn’t know that i know all the names of the porn sitwebs, and that I even had a pro abonnement in pornhub and I was masturbating 3 to 5 times a day! How will you react if you found out that the girl you’re dating was watching some weird porn?
Should I tell my boyfriend about my sexual past?
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  • uh oh, this is a problem.

    so you are Christian and I suspect you've learned that if you keep a secret bottled up, it grows stronger and takes control. When you show vulnerability, as awful as that is, it loses it's power. That's fact!

    So, yes, you have to tell him what he's dealing with here and then see if you can work out this relationship. I can tell you as a Christian when I dated a gal.. we were 40's/50's and tried no sex, that is hard, you gotta really work together to get through that and have an exit plan to get to it.

    Obviously, you have a porn addiction. I know there is a 180 Ministries that works with men, maybe they work with women. Either way, you're an addict now with a hormonally charged baby producing body. oh my... I don't know how you reign in that horse, if you figure that out, write a book. Probably cold turkey mother teresa kinda bibilcan praying stuff.

    Your boyfriend is gonna have to know and likely step up to the challenge to help you, which likely means he's servicing you in some way.

    then there is the issue of sexual compatability... that to me is huge and must be worked out before you are married or as The Apostle Paul noted... 1 Corinthians 7 1-7,
    darn there's a verse that says "better not to marry, if you do you will suffer..." but can't find it... grrr..

  • If I foumd out she was flicking the bean to "zoophilia" and "pedophilia" porn, I'd be absconding from that relationship, and calling the cops.

    You got horny when you watched people fucking animals, and child porn; you're a disgusting human being - and it won't take a nice church boy to see that.

    • Me too.

Most Helpful Girls

  • My boyfriend and i dont go to church so it might be differnet but i think it takes trust to tell a guy those things. My boyfriend and i were very honest about what we liked early on. I told him i like tentacle porn and he likes some weird shit too. We dont judge eachother and still love eachother just the same. I don't know if him choosing to live a pure life will cause problems or not if you tell him but you could maybe tell him you masterbate to porn. You dont have to go into specifics

  • No. Not unless you want to. You’re past shouldn’t define your present relationship.

    • Of course it does.

    • Huh? How? I don’t see how it would unless you cheated in the past. You learn things from past relationships that help you in the long run but it shouldn’t affect how the person you’re with currently sees you or cares for you.

    • No, it shouldn't. But then why hide it if it doesn't matter? Do you know what these words mean? zoophilia, pedophilia

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  • Yes, you should tell him. If he's OK with it, then, cool. If not, then move on.
    It's not good to keep things bottled up. The truth will set you free.
    And thanks for teaching me a new word. "abonnement" I think it's French?

  • Zoophilia and pedophilia, where you find it girl? deep in the dark web?

  • I would love her even more!

  • If you're watching pedophilia that's gonna be a major problem.

  • Don't bother telling him... you'll just needlessly make things weird.

  • Your past is none of his business

    • zoophilia, pedophilia. He deserves the truth.

  • I’m extremely religious. If the woman I was interested in had sinned in the past through a porn addiction, I would joyfully forgive her and put it behind us (assuming she changed her ways, of course).

  • Tell him. If it's a problem for him, kick his sissy ass to the curb and find a man.

  • Do it together 😁

  • you should. He was willing to be honest with you

  • Somethings are best not said
    Nobody is perfect and we all have our sexual sin. Keep it to yourself

  • Everyone, now watches porn I bet he even watched it before , and masterbation isn't a sin, but if u are affraid don't but if u really love him I think you should tell him.

  • I wouldn't feel bad we are all human I've watched the zoo stuff but never have or will ever do it

  • I, MYSELF, i dk about him, since i dont speak for all men, but, I MYSELF, do not need to know about who you were with, or how many you've had.. but, i do need to know two things

    1. If your'e clean
    2. If you have any kids with them or not (baby momma drama), I just don't do. I dont date singler mothers. Sorry girls, it's TOO MUCH DRAMA

    • by the way, is that you in the photo or are you just using another fucking stock photo?

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