Should I tell my boyfriend that my (female coworker) gave me head after a drunken night?

I was on a company retreat and a bunch of coworkers went to the hotel bar at night. It just ended up being me and and my co-worker up at 2am. We went back to my room cause after a while my back started to hurt. She started to massage me and next thing you know she started to kiss my back and going lower.


When I have too much to drink and i get horny. I’ve never been with a girl so I just let it happen to see how it felt. She started eating my ass and gave me the most amazing head! We ended up sleeping in the same bed naked.

We woke up the next day and talked about it and she told me that she was attracted to me but understood that many boundaries were crossed and apologized.

should I keep this to myself or let him know?

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  • This is why clueless dudes will never get the most out of their relationships.

    If he had a clue, he could've seen you had bi tendencies just by looking at you from the get-go. Yes, some of us dudes have this ability. I can spot them from a mile away. You and he could've already opened the relationship to have fun with more females, but instead, it's an awkward situation for you now.

    You should tell him and then open your relationship up to have threesomes with other females. If he's not shocked in a good way, then honestly... I don't think you have much of a relationship any gawdam way

  • 100% tell him.

    Alcohol? Bullsheet. Alcohol doesn't make anyone do anything. It just reveals what character and what level of person is really there.

    You 100% cheated... alcohol is irrelevant.

    Tell him so he can make an informed decision. He'd be a fool to stay with you.

    Guys who date women that travel for their jobs are idiots.

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  • 1. Does he expect you to be faithful to him?
    2. Does he expect you to be honest with him?
    3. Would you want to know if he went out one night and fucked another dude?

  • I think you should tell him, perhaps he'll be okay with it? But you should let him make that decision. Avoiding the issue is just the same as lying.

  • Yeah that’s cheating. He deserves to know

  • You should.

  • you cheated, tell him, maybe he can react different because its a woman I don't know, but if you dont want to lose him and want to fix things, offer a threesome with that woman

  • Lol. Would you want to know if your boyfriend did somethings with another man? Also, more than half of all women say they expect honesty from there partner. Do you think keeping this info from him is being honest? Lastly, if you know having drinks makes you horny, especially on a retreat, why would you put yourself in that situation?

  • You should tell him.

  • sure why not? honesty first...

  • Always be honest

    • Tell your partner lol. You cheated on him

  • Keep it your yourself, once he gets used to you. you can let him know

  • Depending on the guy he will either see that as cheating and hate you or be massivly turned on

  • No you just need to live with the guilt

  • Definitely tell him.. secrets ruin relationships.

  • no need

  • Yes if I was ur boyfriend I'd want u to tell me as long as it was another girl

  • Does he know you might be bisexual? You could tell him because since it was with a woman it won’t be the same to him as cheating with a guy , he might like the idea or he may be concerned you could also do the same with a guy but you should say something or it will eat at you

  • I would tell him.