Should I tell my fiancee that I have depression?

Should I tell my fiancee that I have depression?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yeah, if you want her to break up with you. Go right ahead.

    If you were a girl, I'd say you should be honest with your partner and let him help you. But since you're the guy, no girl wants to hear about how you have a flaw or a weakness or a shortcoming. They'll take that as a good reason to drop you. That's how women are.

    They've always got one foot out the door and the other foot on a banana peel, they're looking for an excuse to leave you flat. You admit to the tiniest problem and they're like, "Oh wow, you know, you're just such a special guy, and I know you're going to make someone so, so, so, so happy someday, and--Oh! My ride is here. SEE YA!"

  • Yes, and also how you manage it. Keeping secrets ruins relationships. Don’t marry someone unless you feel you can be completely honest and open.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Of course. I made the mistake before of not telling a partner I was depressed. And when I got in my moods it ruined things because he just couldn't understand because by then I never knew how 2 explain

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Absolutely!!! To not is to act in bad faith.

  • yes, but tell her one of your rats needs the meds more

  • Yes you should

  • Yes, I would tell her.. Just like I let women know I have mental illnesses

  • Yes.

  • Yes.

  • Yes.

  • if you don't tell that to your fiancee before you're married, that can be considered fraud... so you better set that straight.

  • Yes and a doctor

  • Yeah why not tell her

    • She won't marry if I tell her

    • Its Better to clear the air before you get married and risk divorce later. What makes you think that she won't marry you?

  • yes if she really likes you she will stay with you

  • Yes, or u ll never be able to deal with it ^^ believe me... To win against this shit u need strong bases/help around u... Don't lie to the people who is the best to help u

  • Yes. You ought not to hide things from her.