Honestly 14 is a bit young to become sexually active, at that age you're truly not ready to deal with the emotions that go along with it and if an accidental pregnancy happened you to young to handle it or have and care for a baby. I know there are 13 y. o. girls having sex but that doesn't make it right Do talk to you Mom about it and ask for advice.
Well I'm scared she's gonna get mad at me and I'm not scared of getting pregnant me and the guy are very careful a trusted adult knows but I'm not exactly sure how to tell my mom
I understand, isvthere a particular reason you think your Mom will be mad at you?
Not really it's just I have a couple older siblings who aren't the greatest and I just don't wanna disappoint her.
14 is kinda young. Take it slow you have your whole life ahead of you for wonderful sex. Good job for using condoms every time. Was the guy a virgin also? I think it is ok to talk to your parents about it. It is ok to talk about sex after all. What are your thoughts?
That’s a personal decision that only you can make. None of us know your relationship with your mom. My answer would be no don’t tell her but I hid losing my virginity from my mom till after I was 18 cause I didn’t want a ass whooping😂 but I generally don’t talk about personal issues to my mom
It really depends upon your relationship with your mom. I always say be open about all these normal natural things. You can then at least discuss additional contraception.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!He was an adult? How old is he and how do you know him? School? After school club? Family friend?
No he's not an adult he is also a sophomore we've known each other since 7th grade and we're close friends. We dated at a point but we're no longer together.
Sorry. Misinterpreted one of your replies elsewhere. Sounds like you don't plan on repeating it anytime soon. Without knowing you parents it's difficult to say how they'll react. In general I would say honesty is the best policy. Tell you mum but also explain that you've realised you're not ready for it.
You are still very small and you have already lost your virginity, I am still a virgin. Well if you think that's okay, then talk to your mom about what you've done.
What would be the purpose of telling her?
If you are close with her then sure, if you are not probs keep it to your self. Saying that it is not bad so she has not right to be mad for long
Are you and you mother close like that or will she get mad at you
I say no unless you ended up pregnant.
I wouldn't say anything.
No, you really do not have to.
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