Should I tell my mom that her new boyfriend creeps me out or should I let her be happy?

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  • 100% tell her.

    Sadly, statistically she may not believe you or become jealous, but I think it is worth the effort since it could mean she brings him around less, confront him on it, or at the very least minimizes any chance of him being left alone at the house while you're around.

    Men are rarely good at hiding their intentions, so if he's being creepy, it's probably because he's attracted to you in some way (even if it's not you as a whole, but one particular aspect/feature of you like hair).

    • Thats very weird. I think its my boobs which is weird my moms are way nicer.

    • The porn industry glamorizes youth and women 18-25. If it were legal to lower the age, I think you would see it go down to 14, which... creepy.

    • U thinks he likes Kids? He has 4 daughters

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  • Honestly I someone new to your family is making you feel uncomfortable (particularly if there is any hint of a sexual component to it) then be honest and open with your mum!

    And just remember if he is a creep you wouldn't want him around your mum anyway and if he's a creep to you I don't think she'd want him around you!

    Good luck and make sure you know to tell someone if anything happens that makes you even more uncomfortable!

    • If its getting worse and especially if there has been physical violence or sexual intent to his actions, then contact the police, also try contacting women's shelters or citizens advice! Lots of love and hope things get sorted ❤

Most Helpful Guys

  • . damn I wish I would have seen this before you said something
    I would have told you you have to tell her but it's all in the way that you say it to her did she will respond to it if you say creep me out and you're very negative about it she's going to push it to the side that you explain to her the reasons why it makes you feel uncomfortable she might respond to it a little bit different

  • Greatly depends on how he creeps you out and how you get on with your mum.

    if in doubt tell her, you are her daughter and she should take you into account.

    • Ok. I just feel bad because it seems like she really likes him.

    • Thanks for MHG

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  • That is never okay. If you don’t feel comfortable then you should tell her. Also you are underage which make it more serious.

  • It depends on what type of creepy behavior he’s displaying.

    • He acts like my talks. Ask me about my sex life. Stares at my boobs a lot.

    • Yes, tell your mom. The 2nd part is the worst one. He should NOT be asking you about your sex life. That would be wrong at any age, but it’s especially bad because you’re a child.

    • She Disnt seem to care.

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  • If you have concerns then definitely tell her

    • Okay i will.

  • By creepy what you mean? Does he look creepy or is he creepy?

    • He likes trys to be my dad. He ask me about my sex life He trys to buy me clothes to wear. He stares at my boobs a lot.

    • Yep that's pretty creepy, try not to feed his weird creepiness too much and I think you should tell your mother, just make sure she knows that you are telling her just so she knows cause it's weird

  • Tell her the truth

    I’m sorry 😢

    • I think she didn't care?

    • That really sucks

    • Call child protective services right away and go stay at a friends house till they get there

  • Explain why you feel the way you do. Be sure to tell her you want her to be happy, but you wanted to be honest.

    • I will.

    • Sorry that she responded that way. But she will at least have it in her mind in case your feelings turn out to be justified. You did the right thing and I for one am proud of you. Now as long as he is around and you are uncomfortable, do all you can to be modest around him so in no way can he be enticed further because of your good dress and conduct. This will keep you safer and allow you to support your mom.

    • GREAT advice about dressing modestly. That’s very very important in these type of situations. It’s best to stay very covered and show no skin or curves at all. Even shorts probably shouldn’t be worn in his presence.

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  • Tell her, so she can be on the lookout for signs. Also tell her some of the things he has done

  • It depends on what type of behavior he displays.

  • What has he done to you then I will tell what to do?

  • Definitely tell her. Especially since you're so young.

  • You need to let her know your opinion. If she doesn't take it into consideration then there's nothing you can do, but she will be aware of what you think

  • I believe you wish to make him happy.

    • Talk to mom again and explain in detail.

  • let her be happy these days it is hard to find happiness it seems

  • To be fair, when won't her new boyfriends "creep" you out. They're not your daddy

    • Her ex didn't creep me out he was super nice.

    • I doubt that but ok

    • Yah he give me his credit card and say i could buy whatever i want and he didn't care if i was out with friends all day and night.

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  • I'd say tell her

    • Okay.

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    • Then stay away with all precautions

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  • You should probably tel her , our kids opinions do matter, you might see something we don’t

  • Not at all. Just continue to wear very little around him so he's extra horny with your mom.

    • What?

    • If you've made him horny he will put that to use with your mom

    • You're so fucking dumb and probably a pedo

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  • Predators are attracted to single moms like flies to shit. Another reason to be sexually selective as a woman, y'all hold society in place by keeping your legs closed. Predators know it’s easy to manipulate a single mom because she’s so desperate for love, she’ll be completely blind to her child’s needs

    • Hmm what?

    • What the hell do you expect me to say to that? Read what I said again until you understand it