Should I text her after sex?

Anonymous

This girl and I have been friends for about 4-5 years. We finally had sex last night and she stayed the night. She told me when she was here that she wanted to have sex again this weekend. I haven't texted her today, but should I? keep in mind: she's not looking for a relationship and neither am I.

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AlyssaSalcido12 Xper 6
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If you both aren't looking for a relationship, maybe it's best to just keep it at friends with benefits.
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- AlyssaSalcido12
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  Which means don't text her.
- Asker
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  When should I text her?
Taywallee16 Xper 7
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If you want to go ahead. Just be aware that she might get the impression you want something more.
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- Asker
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  What would you think of it if a friend of 4-5 years texted you after you two had sex?
- Taywallee16
  +1 y
  Honestly? I would kind of think he was catching feelings. Or that the sex was really good and he wants more.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Is it ok to wait till tomorrow without her getting mad or something?
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- Taywallee16
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  I don't think she'd be mad. Why do you want to test her so badly? It sounds like you like her as more than a friend.
- Asker
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  I just don't want her to think I'm catching feelings you just because I send a text you know?
Rainie_ Guru
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Of course you should
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- Asker
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  Why do you think I should? Thanks :)
- Rainie_
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  Well if you both aren't looking for a relationship you can keep it casual. As long as you guys make it completely clear that you don't want anything more than that.
- Asker
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  Yeah we both made things clear on that.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I texted her that day, then she texted me good morning the next day. We talked and went out that last night. It's a friends with benefits thing, which I don't mind. Thank you :)
- Rainie_
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  You're welcome ☺️☺️ Thanks for the MHO

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AustinMan Influencer
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Call her, fool!! Texting is too impersonal.
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AmandaLynn1930 Guru
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i would wait until the weekend. unless you actually want to talk to her.
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- Asker
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  How would you react if you were in my situation and the guy texted you the next day? Thanks!
- AmandaLynn1930
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  i would text him back, of course. but i wouldn't be hurt or anything if he didn't text me.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Sounds good. I think I'll text her here soon. Make it brief since she told me last night she wants to go out to get drinks this weekend.
homper87 Xper 6
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If you want to text her, then do it. No need to play games or second-guess yourself. Do you text your friends after hanging-out with them?
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