Should I try panties as a trans girl?

[Bubblee]

i've wanted to try panties for some time but i don't want my family to see me try them do you guys have any tips of how i could try it?

[humanearth]

I'm guessing how you worded the question. You have to be about 10 or 13 years old

Why don't you just steal them like other teenage boys do. Like from your mom, neighbors, sisters or anyone else.

Thats how you would would know if you would like them. Don't waste money on buying them, till you know for sure.

And if your stash gets found. Play stupid and say stuff. I don't nothing about them. Lie lie lie never admit to having them, unless you really want them to know about it

[Bubblee]

i'm a trans girl not a boy but i understand what ur saying

[humanearth]

@bubblee I know I came across harsh. I didn't want it to come across that way. But after re-reading, I sound like an asshole I crossdress and been cross dressing longer then most been alive on here

[Bubblee]

Ita good that you realized no that also waa the reason i didn't answer and that i don't like stealing

[Bubblee]

thats also the reason*

[FunkyMonkee]

You never wore a skirt with boxers?
What kind of family are we talking about, parents, brothers & sisters? Wife and children? Other cult members?

[Bubblee]

i have wore an skirt but yes with boxers and were talking about parents and siblings

[FunkyMonkee]

Well, who's gonna see them? I wore a pair of red pantyhose to my grandmother's funeral when I was 16 or 17. Nobody else knew about it `til now. I continued wearing girl clothes off and on over the next decade or so, sometimes taking a late night stroll in my own town while wearing that stuff: pantyhose, mini skirts, a bra with large fake tits. One night, I decided to walk up to the mall a little over a mile away and, about half way there, a cop car pulled up beside me and was asking if I saw someone they were looking for. I'm sure he could CLEARLY see my red mini skirt and the shoulder bag I was wearing but said not a word about either! Not long after this, I started wearing a leotard, pantyhose, black lace French cut panties and a mini skirt on stage with my band. Most of the fans loved it and would actually be disappointed if I DIDN'T wear it! Most often, after gigs, no one in the band ever wanted to drive me home (it'd take them all of 10:00 to get me there!) so, I'd just walk home from the house where we rehearsed. I kept the skirt on the whole way (at least 8 miles) and had to go through a few very rough neighborhoods but no one ever bothered me! A few times, I wore the skirt and tits (under a fairly tight sweater) on the bus on the way to work. One time, a guy on the bus scoffed at me. Another guy at a convenience store made fun of me. A black woman, the manager, at a McDonald's I ate at a lot, waited on me with my tits practically in her face (I was over a foot taller than her) and she never said a word about them. I wore the red pantyhose at the toy store where I worked and even took my shoes & socks off as I stocked the shelves and the girl working with me never said a word about them. A few times, my fiance & I would take walks a few miles from our house, me in a skirt and pantyhose and even sit there in the park next to the library as people walked by, played baseball about 20' away, nobody said anything about it!

[FunkyMonkee]

Sometimes, one of my fans would come to a gig in a skirt and tell me it was in my honour.

[Bubblee]

this is really cool and your inspiering me but do you know how i could get them and i would kinda want to try fake tits but thats even harder to sneak in any tips cuz you to did it and i would love to be open about in my family but i first want to make a choice

[FunkyMonkee]

Just go to a store that sells them and buy some. Try Goodwill. Or, buy them online. The first fake tits I ever got were Curves but, half the time I had them on, no one even noticed them. I used to wear them to work at the bank and had a zip-up sweater-vest that I'd always wear over them so, as long as it was only zipped up half way, or 1/3, no one could even tell I was wearing them and, if I thought they might be able to, I'd just hunch over ever so slightly to make the vest hang even looser. IF you're going to wear pantyhose in public, as in, letting everyone see your legs in them, at least for starters, just get the plain ones that are nude or skintone and SHAVE YOUR LEGS!!! They look like SHIT in pantyhose with hair on them!! I've even seen a couple women with very hairy legs in pantyhose and they did NOT look good!! No Nonsense are the best ones, so far but, strangely, Italy, land of mostly short people, actually makes pantyhose big enough to fit me!! I'm 6' 9"!! L'Eggs will do in a pinch but they run a lot easier. One night, I HAD to buy a pair and all they had were black. I got to the gig and went into the dressing room to get into my stage gear and, before I even got the damn things up past my knees, I got a HUGE hole 4" across in the one leg!!! So, I HAD to wear them like that!! Most often, L'Eggs only last 2 or 3 wearings before they start getting runs. No Nonsense gives at least 5 or 6 uses before starting to run. When putting them on, after they're completely up, they may feel as though they're sliding down as you walk in them, (that's partly why the leotard). Or, they may not feel like they're all the way up. If so, go to the bathroom or kitchen and get just a splash of water on one hand and smear it on the other (you, mostly, want them damp, not soaked) and then start near or at your foot and, with a slightly firm grip, on both sides of your leg, gently slide your hands up the pantyhose and they'll actually slide up a bit!

[FunkyMonkee]

You may need to do it a few times to get used to the right way to do it. You also may need to wet your hands twice for each leg and, the water will dry in just a few seconds.
One of the biggest reasons I wear this stuff on stage is because I just discovered the first 5 years that I was in the band that I just couldn't play double bass drums the way I need to in pants or even shorts! So, scooter or skater mini skirt! A-line works, too. And, the leo keeps my body sweat from getting on my arms and into my hands making the sticks impossible to hold and even giving me blisters and, the pantyhose help keep the leg sweat off my arms because I rest my snare arm on my lap most of the time.
As for the tits. The Curves were actually $100 a pair. If anyone asks why I'M buying them, I just say it's for my girlfriend. Rarely ever does anyone ask. Shortly after these came out, EVERYBODY was selling fake tits!! The Curves started to break apart after a few months!! The cheaper ones (about $35.00 at Wal-Mart) lasted twice as long but still leaked, eventually. There are some great new ones that look just like real tits!! You glue them on and they blend right in with your skin so, nobody knows they're fake! Problem is, they're $750 a pair!! I've seen at least one pair on eBay but never had the money to buy them. Someone on Etsy sells almost the exact same thing for $500 but, he told me that they might not last a really long time so, you might not want to blow half a grand on those tits. No idea how the $750's hold up. I don't even know if they still make them but, here's the link! https://www.realgurl.com/products/ The ones that are $1200 are the same as the $750's except that they're all one piece instead of 2 separate tits. And the cheaper route to go is eBay but, a lot of the items are cheaper (not as good) too! They sell full body silicone girl suits or, just the tits or just the pussy or a leo that looks like a naked girl, etc..

[FunkyMonkee]

Most of my family knew, just not dad or any of the cousins or aunts & uncles. Well, one cousin because we played in bar where he was working.

[Bubblee]

how do you suggest to shave my legs?

[Bubblee]

And could you but a link for curves

[FunkyMonkee]

I've always just used my electric razor. A friend of mine suggested I use something like Nair and she came over to help me with it and it didn't do shit!! About the only good thing to come out of it was that I got to see her naked. The only thing I hate about shaving them is that it takes SO FUCKING LONG!!! At LEAST 45:00 and, even then, there's no guarantee you'll get it all! The only other hassle is the ingrown hairs when it comes back but, they're real easy to deal with. Just get a pin or needle, stick it under the base of the hair and pop the hair right out! I HAVE tried waxing, too but, that never worked, either. I WANTED to get some Aplomb but just couldn't afford it, at the time and, now, nobody sells it! A trans friend of mine got electrolysis but, she said, it takes a LONG time because they only do a small patch each time and, the way she put it, "It separates the men from the boys!!" It's quite painful!

[Bubblee]

And do you have a link for curves

[FunkyMonkee]

I don't even know if they still make Curves. Most people just go for the generic fake tits. I got mine at a store that sells sexy underwear (fishnets, body stockings, etc.). I don't even know if Wal-Mart still sells them! They sell stuff on eBay and Amazon that's like a silicone tank top with tits built in. Some have silicone leotards with tits, ass and pussy built in, some have body suits with it all built in. They usually include what's called, a Texas catheter (It's like putting on a thick condom that has a rubber tube in the end that leads to your girl pee hole) you can wear so, if you have to pee, you can use the girls room and pee like a girl. There used to be a site called, "FemSkin" that sold that kind of stuff but, looking for them yesterday turned up a couple BBB warnings that they weren't very good people to deal with and, as far as I know, the site no longer exists. There's a LOT of different companies around the world that sell fake tits. The last set I got was from some company in Germany and their tits tend to ruin a bit larger than the size they're supposed to be. I think I asked for D's and got DD's. I mean, they ARE D's but, they just make theirs a bit larger. Just do a search for "silicone tits" or "silicone breast enhancers". I don't even know that I'd recommend Curves since they are just supposed to add a cup size to what you've already got and they break down after about half a year, or so, so, at $100 a pair, I don't think they're really worth it. I got the largest ones they made and some people still couldn't see them!! One time, I wore them to a meeting of similar people and made NO attempts to hide them and even tried to make sure they could be seen. I mentioned to the people there that I was wearing them and they all asked, 'Wearing what?" They couldn't even tell I had them on!!

[Bubblee]

Thats great i'll search arrouns on thw internet!

[Bubblee]

Arround the*

[Bubblee]

In this vication i'm going shopping with my sister so i'll prob buy some there and panties i told my sister so thank you for all your help ur awesome and brang hope in me but i'm kinda intrested, what is ur band name?

[FunkyMonkee]

Thin White Line. Originally, it was Otis & The Red-Z, then Bob changed it to Younglust. A few years later, he changed it again to Thin White Line, then back to Otis & The Red-Z and then back to Thin White Line.

[Bubblee]

4 monthly listeners :/

[Bubblee]

i like ur music tho!

[Bubblee]

i really think your kinda the old me liking to wear "girls clothes" and you make music just as i want to an day and its amazing to ever had a conversation with you thanks i think i'll paths will split from here hope you will have a great life

[FunkyMonkee]

Thanks but, are you sure you got the right one? Apparently, there's a few bands with that name! If you see any of our live videos, the singer is a rather short black guy that looks kinda like Otis Redding with a tooth missing. Look up the songs, "Balancing Act", "Pink Dots From Mars", "Towers Open Fire", "We're Not Animals", "Under The Blades Of Love", "Take Me To The River", "Claptrap", those are us. There should be 2 Younglust songs, too. "Everyone You Meet" and "Compulsion". If you can find those, then listen to the TWL versions, you can see how different they were once I got behind the drums! That single has the drummer I replaced. He's dead now (in fact, everybody on that record (except, MAYBE the bass player) is dead!) but their memory lives on in stereo hi-fi! Although, I DID see Greg's obit in the paper 10 years ago but I'm told he's been seen since then!

[FunkyMonkee]

Thanks! You, too!! So far, my last 20 years, or so have become gradually worse!!

[humanearth]

Lots of good tips there, but when I shave my legs. I use my straight razor. I can shave my legs under 5 minutes with it. Plus when I want to shave my chest arms and the rest of my body. Thats about an hour. But I have many years of practice with straight razors But I really like your pantyhose tips. Using Water, I would have never have guessed Boy I remember my 1st time in public crossfressed dressed. Its like you said, no one cares. Its you facing you're own fears

[Bubblee]

i like chemicals the best!

[Bubblee]

i can't find anything are you on spotify if yes pls send a link and maybe a link for a yt video of you guys

[Bubblee]

found it now its a bit diffrent music then the band i found i'm noy sure if i totally like it but its cool that u actually performed

[FunkyMonkee]

@humanearth I think I found the water tip by accident. I think my hands were a bit wet and I had to hike `em up and tried it with wet hands and, voila!! It worked like a charm!! Well, you hear all this shit about homophobes going around hurting and killing anybody different than them and you have NO idea who you're gonna run into from one day to the next!! So, you kinda HAVE to be leery!! I've been attacked at least twice, both times by Oi Boys!! THAT'S pretty fucking strange in and of itself!! Guys that make it a POINT to dress really weird to get attention and will even beat the shit out of you if you don't like it are gonna beat the shit out of someone else that dresses weird, too? We decided to have a party at the house where we rehearsed, the place was LOADED with people!! Maybe as many as 100 people! I'm upstairs in one of the bed rooms getting my tights and skirt on because we're about ready to start playing. I walk down the stairs into the crowd of people there to see us and these 3 or 4 Oi Boys spot me wearing the skirt and start yelling, "KILL THE FAGGOT!!" and then they start coming after ME!! I ran back upstairs and hid in one of the bedrooms as they ran past the room and down the end of the hall looking for me. The door had no latch on it so, I couldn't close it 100% or lock it and was just holding it shut with my foot against the bottom of it! They figured out I was in there but couldn't get it open but managed to bend it enough to throw beer on me and then tried to throw a lighted match on me to catch the beer on fire!! They ran back downstairs and I climbed out the front window and down onto the porch where my singer and a dozen other people were hanging out! he wanted to know what the fuck I was doing and I told him and he (an ex Vietnam marine) rushed into the house to go after those guys but, they were gone!!!

[FunkyMonkee]

@humanearth The next time was about 20 years later, we were playing a gig at a biker bar that was owned by a big biker. We were just about to start playing. I stepped out onto the stage from behind it and was just about to sit at my drums when an Oi Boy in orange checked pants saw me in the skirt, rushed the stage, tackled my guitarist, knocked him into my right bass drum and snapped the brand new bass pedal off the drum!! Joel, the owner, jumped out from behind the bar, GRABBED that guy and gave him a bum's rush out the front door and nearly smashed his own glass door doing it!!

[FunkyMonkee]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QCmjPHz5spg
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XsbHOqYhDiA

[Bubblee]

Well thats kinda fucked up

[kylee2437]

Honestly I find these questions annoying. As a person you are allowed to do what you would like to do and people shouldn’t be making such life decisions for you. It’s panties, it shouldn’t be this hard

[Bubblee]

i understand but i am quite umberassed cuz i feel like family will seem like its weird

[FauxGirlNikki]

Your right, it SHOULDN'T be that hard... But the fact is it can be. Speaking as of someone who's been through the same thing I can attest that a person could have a lot to lose if the wrong person found out and you never really know who the "wrong" person is gonna be... Sometimes it could even be family or best friends and that's a lot to lose when all your trying to do is live YOUR life and be happy ya know.

[kylee2437]

@fauxgirlnikki I get where you are coming from but there’s just some point in time where you need to say “fuck what my parents think” and just live with what makes you most comfortable.

[Bubblee]

yes indeed ur right i'll try but i won't just be like hey mom can you buy this for me

[Faith18letsgo]

I don’t know how old you are so it’s hard to say but I would say buy them, put them some where private put them in and don’t wander around without your pants on and do your own laundry.

[Bubblee]

i am 13

[Faith18letsgo]

Really excited journey your on. Happy LGBTQ history month!

[Bubblee]

Thanks you!

[NamerOfStars]

Um, why would your family be seeing your underwear anyway? Do you make a habit of showing it off in family settings?

[Bubblee]

i mean getting them in my room

[Guy13]

Why not, follow your fun...

[bigmatt98]

Go to the store buy them try them on see if you like them. If you do awesome if you don’t awesome. Hide them in your room wear them when you go out with friends that won’t judge you and make sure your not sagging or swap them out in a bathroom or on the way to your destination

[bigmatt98]

Update for update:you buy them and so as you want but if you haven’t started getting cup sizes you may want to look at teen clothes rather then adult

[Bubblee]

thanks

[bowenw]

Try them on in a fitting room at a store.

[htmndg183]

Try them if you want.

[Gooddaze]

How and why would your family see you try on underwear.

[Bubblee]

no getting them