Should I meet up with my ex fwb?

[Anonymous]

When I say meet that's for lunch! Well we are still great friends even tho I'm married and he's not. We talk every once in a while but not often. He is very respectful of my marriage which is really cool. What do y'all think yes or no should we meet for lunch? Thanks.

[PonyCar]

As long as the lines are drawn in the sand and not crossed + everyone remains aware & respectful of the boundaries, I honestly see no problem with it. You hang out with your friends. That's how it works. If you're not actually friends, then don't hang out.

If everyone's open, honest & respectful of each other, then there shouldn't be a problem. Maturity is key, though. If anyone in the situation (including your husband or his girlfriend) would be made uncomfortable by this, then you need to discuss it beforehand.

[katkaintkwit]

Of course she gives best answer to the one who gave her the OK lol people don't come here for honest answers. They come for confirmation lol (Rant of the Day)

[PonyCar]

Says the person w/the most antagonistic answer. You realize we're almost in the exact same boat, right? If you'd phrased your answer differently you probably would've gotten Best Answer. 9/10 Best Answers I see on GAG are awarded to those w/the best phrasing (& not necessarily the best material/substance).

[Asker]

I gave her the best answer because she was being real period! If you don't like it don't look keep it moving thanks!

[katkaintkwit]

Our answers were not the same. My answer was don't do it. because I know her husband wouldn't like that lol and QA she wasn't bein real. She was sugar coating what a horrible wife you are.

[Asker]

Sweetie get a life it's not your life it's MINE! Plus just to shut you up my husband is OK with it all! Like she said "If everyone's open, honest & respectful of each other, then there shouldn't be a problem"

[katkaintkwit]

She said that. Not you! You're a liar and a sneak. And you know it. Bye again. (Last comment)

[katkaintkwit]

You stupid? It's not bad to be friends with someone you were involved with. It's bad to do if you're married.. But I'll tell you this. If you go to your husband and say hey! My old friends with benefits wants to hang out and meet for lunch. Is that ok? And he says yes. Then go ahead but If its too crazy to even ask...don't do it.

[Asker]

No far from stupid thanks! Please remember to always be respectful when answering questions...

[katkaintkwit]

Be respectful to your husband... Learn to be a wife then teach me how to answer questions.

[Asker]

You get a husband then you can tell me or give me any advise. Plus I can do what I want when I want!

[katkaintkwit]

lol you can do what you want when you want? Says a future divorcee. And I could be married tomorrow if I wanted to be... I'm just that... Awesome:) but I'm in college so... Bye bye:) lol

[Asker]

Please Bye!

[helpha]

No, you are married. Besides I doubt you would be meeting with an ex friends with benefits just to talk and know about his life. You didn't really use him for anything but the physical side of things when you guys were 'together', so I doubt you'd be looking for anything harmless. Even if its just flirting. I say no.

[Asker]

Thanks! It is very harmless he has a girlfriend and he love so he say. Also I love my husband so nothing will be going on. Public place no close door meeting or any thing like that.

[systemsuck]

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