This question makes a lot of assumptions that don’t fly. You want to be with women because you’re attracted to women, and women will be attracted to you before they will know anything about your penis. I promise that’s not the detail about your body that will change most people’s minds. We as men are not doing a great job at tending to each other’s insecurities. Women are in a better place even though they receive more shit about their bodies (too fat, too thin, too tall, too short, too saggy, too curvy, too flat, too dark, all that bullshit). You can see that there is a culture of solidarity because all this stuff does is make some people feel inadequate for no good reason at all. Well, guess what, everyone is adequate. We have a huge genetic pool of varieties that still persist in humanity, because we’re all good the way we are.
Penis insecurities are common because dicks are a secret to most people, and discussion is not in the open. Even on this forum you will see people being nasty about this and other body shaming topics. Just as a reminder, this forum is NOT a safe space, and asking a question will attract all sorts of bad replies. People who want to bring other people down, because they have their own issues and no way to cope with them. But beyond the secret you will find that most penises are actually within the commonly accepted norm and are perfectly good for most partners. I read somewhere in your comments that your measurements are actually pretty average. This confirms that the insecurity has nothing to do with size itself, but mostly with people being nasty and lack of openness on the topic.
Now, for the obligatory part: many women prefer partners who are not too big. And many men who are below average can be sexually active. It has nothing to do with their body. Sexual attraction is to a big degree a matter of chemistry and connection. The shape of the genitals is something that matters only when there is some very clear and rare incompatibility. It’s not your concern. You have all you need to be a sexy fucker, and a good partner. You just need to acknowledge your insecurities and take care of them.
Women will be attracted, and then after I make a fool of myself they will no longer be attracted and desire the bigger men. Insecurities don't need to be tend to, it's all about accepting reality, not some accepting some fake bullshit just to feel better. Women are admired for many different body shapes so don't act like it's the same, there's only one type of male body type that is admired, tall six pack muscular, hung. Everyone is not adequate. I'm not looking for a safe space, I prefer honesty over happy bullshit. The only penis that is admired are the large ones so save that bullshit for someone else. The only praise for smaller comes from women that like to humiliate. My measurements are not average, they are well below average. The only reason men that are below average get pussy is money, and supply versus demand coupled with monogamy being the standard. I have acknowledged my insecurity, which is why I stay away from women
You seem to have read too many incel opinions. These opinions have the weakness that they are completely wrong and unfounded in facts. Women admire all kind of body types, and so many are just disgusted at the idea of someone muscular or tall or hung. I suggest you cast aside your convictions and listen to what women are actually looking for. And less incel forums.
Lol, no that's just what women like. Women don't admit to it because there is not enough supply of those men to go around. I wouldn't listen to a word coming from a woman, they don't say anything truthful, they just say things to get what they want.
I guess it depends how small you're talking about. Guys and gurls on here that admitted to having, or a partner having a 4.5 inch penis have had partners and havr been satisfied. I guess some of those women might have preferred their man have a bigger one, but if it can get the job done and they like the guy then there shouldn't be an issue. Wonen see men as more than a penis, and if the guy is the person they want to ve with and can ve satisfied sexually than that is whats important.
Obviously I guess there will be limits as to how small a women is prepared to go like if it's 3.5 inches and they can barely even get in then that's going to be pretty unsatisfying for a woman. It really is down to the woman to decide. If you don't feel you have anything else to offer, or your snall dick attitude cones across, I guess you'd struggle getting a partner.
Of course there's other things to offer, but sexual satisfaction is important in a relationship. And like I said everything else comes with friendship
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!If he's into women, then yes. Are you under the impression that women ONLY date seven foot tall millionaire underwear models?
Would they prefer someone who's better looking and richer? Yeah, probably; you'd prefer someone who's more attractive over someone less, too. That doesn't mean you won't date them, or that you'll have no loyalty. I seriously doubt you'd be completely unable to satisfy a woman sexually with a small penis, unless you were uncreative or she was very impatient (it's not exactly rocket science), but even if that WAS the case, then, well, you've got fingers and a tongue, no? Sex isn't a competition. As long as you can satisfy each other, what's the problem?
Women have to much access to sex to trust being with one when you are flawed in that area. Doesn't matter how much I try to satisfy her, nothing I can do would replicate sex with a bigger guy
Sex is a competition, whoever is better is who she will desire sexually
A small penis can be compensated for; an overpowering lack of trust can't. Don't blame your dick for your brain's failings.
Yes. I certainly used to. You can just tell them you're not into sex. Hell, it might even make your relationship stronger if you can admit to her you like her for more than just sex.
I think you're the same person that asked that last question about this. Like I said before, if you're under 7", you should learn to get good at oral, cause your baby-dick isn't going to be good enough. But it's not the end-all, be-all.
You can answer without the insult
I wasn't insulting you. I was speaking in general. I am in that range as well.
Sorry for the confusion. I meant "you" as in "anyone."
If I had a small penis I would do whatever procedure I have to do to lose my sex drive, and I would focus my life to discover something new like the cure for cancer or phsysics 😂
That's always a possibility lol
I'll keep it in draft in case it ever shrinks or someone cuts it off 😂😂
Eh... Why are you gatekeeping?
You get another knock back on Tinder?
Yeah as if you could score the best woman at sex ever. For both of you, there are gonna be "better options" for sex. But that doesn't make it a "better option" for a relationship. If you are good with each other in most ways, then I don't think being less than the best in some area is gonna throw you out.
Women don't need to worry about sexual performance all that much
Why?
They just don't, they are the gatekeeper of sex, they just have to show up
If a man hones his skills at oral and fingering, many women would not care if he had one at all.
Women want it all, a big dick plus those skills. A guy with a big dick can learn, a guy with a small dick can't grow, so why would a woman want that?
Women measure men by a lot more than sexual acumen. How about good character?
A guy with a big dick can have good character as well
It’s not the most important thing to most women. For some it is, but I don’t think those are the majority. Remember, the average size is something like 5.5”-6”and most men are within an inch of that. What will hurt you more than being a bit less than average is lack of confidence.
actually the average length is 5.1 -5.5, the grand majority of women are not going to have an issue with that, the bigger problem for him is his bad attitude.
You must mean my realistic attitude
@shanom no im talking about shitty, self pitying attitudes, it's unattractive and the negativity drives people away.
If o had that issue I would be upfront in a dating app profile as there are some women who do like a small penis (it could be due to pain, trauma or their own small vagina) or simply don’t care. You may just stand out to them and get more hits. It couldn’t hurt. I don’t think o would have a face pic though.
How small we talking?
5"...
You'll be ok.
5 ain't that bad, don't worry about it.
Dunno. Not my problem.
Or the guy can learn all he can to be a good lover there is more than putting your dick inside
Doesn't matter, bigger guys can learn all the same things
Yes.
They can try but at the end of the day it's up to you and your partner to be honest and work out what you both enjoy
There's plenty of women who say smaller dicks are just fine. I've heard some women even say it his the G spot better. Keep your head up, there's plenty of women out there right for you who you're right for as well.
That's just something they tell their partner to make them feel better
I've seen it on a number of occasions women speaking generally, not specifically to a person. I'm sure you've even seen some women saying larger dicks hurt and are unpleasant. I've also seen that about average sized dicks, though much less often. I'm not sure why you seem to be of the opinion that all women, or even a vast majority of them, only like one thing. Like that's just a statistically unreasonable suggestion.
There's a difference between bigger than average and too big. Most women want bigger than average.
Asian women don’t mind small
The grand majority of women wouldn't have an issue with a 5 inch penis either
@Subarugirl I think that most women who’ve had a few hookups with giant cock dudes are gunna always be dreaming of that bigger dick...
Of they will realized that having your cervix rammed over and over again fucking hurts...
no but you know... Let's say you like girls with big butts... But you happen to find a girl you really love and connect to.. then 2 years later you find out she has no ass... You jus accept it and learn to love her no matter if she has no ass... So you know like.. m it can be the same way for you... There might be some girl out there somewhere in the world who will really love you and don't care about your small dick.. it's kinda messed up to hide from her your whole life and take yourself off the market for her... That's kinda cruel to her she's seeking and looking to find you her whole life and may never find you.. m give yourself to her man,
U get me?
I'm not interested in pity love
Me either
Nature is cruel to us like that and we have to accept it. Tighter vaginas and bigger penises will always rule sex and the rest are just to settle and be miserable together. Thankfully this might support legalizing prostitution more
No. They just embarrass themselves.
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