Should people wait until they're married to have sex?

I'm waiting until I'm married to have sex and there's no chance of me changing my mind. I'm not against people who have sex before marriage and I'd like my husband to be experienced. I'm just wondering how others feel and if they're choosing to wait.
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  • It's up to the person.

    I understand that religion generally says avoid it before marriage and only do it with the person you're married too, but I don't think a lot of people care so much about it.

    Personally, I'm not religious, so I don't even see the point of marriage myself, so I probably wouldn't wait.

    That being said, I'm a virgin and I don't know what I'm missing, so I'm not 'desperate', I mean the thought of sex sound amazing, but what you've never had, you never miss and I'd rather not get fixated on the idea that I need it or even a relationship, as I'm the same when it comes to that, in terms of experience.

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  • It's how a person feels about their virginity mainly. I would only wait until marriage if I was really unsure about having sex. But I think as long as my future partner wants to commit and marry me then we can have sex before we get married. I just have to be ready for it and be sure I want to do it (as well as if my partner is who I'm sure of giving my virginity to). But yes, it is fine to wait until marriage to have sex if that is what you really want.

  • People should do what they’re most comfortable with.

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  • If they want to, sure.

  • If they want to, yes. I chose otherwise, and would do so again, but people should be free to make their own choices.

  • I respect your belief however, I just don't share it or see a reason to.

  • That's a personal decision everyone must make

  • it's a personal choice

  • I only have sex when I'm in a committed relationship but I wouldn't wait until marriage because I think it's important to know if you're sexually compatible before making such a big commitment

  • People should do what they personally think us best, you mess up once you ask others opinions on the matter. If you want to wait that's fine, if you don't then that's also fine. Just make sure it's your own decision and not someone else's.

    • I just wanted to know what people really do these days.

  • I think a person should have sex whenever they decide they want to.
    Dont let anyone tell you when YOU can have sex, its YOUR choice not theirs.

  • If ur ready ur ready

  • I think waiting is generally a bad idea. For one main reason. You are not sexually compatible. You both may vet in great as people etc but in bed you dont feel any "spark"... like fucking a friend. Im not saying that always happens but its very possible and i know of two girls who did and... both ended up having affairs down the line. Both with me.

  • I won't marry someone I haven't had sex with.

  • Nope

    How do you know you're in a relationship then

    if guys and girls can be "just friends", right?

    LMAOOOO

    • Well intimacy is still a need like kissing, sleeping in the same bed, cuddling, and maybe oral.

    • Right

  • I wouldn't.

    It's too late to find out you're not sexually compatible once you get married.

    • There's other ways to find out. I mean my ex's and I did little stuff and talked about sex a lot.

  • no then i’ll never have sex if every guy waits till marriage

  • i'm not really patient, and i am not going to marry anyone
    because i believe if you LOVE someone married or not married you would still love that person

  • Why you choose to be togheter

  • If you are waiting until marriage; why don't you want your husband to wait too?

    • I'm a sub and he's gonna be a dom so I'd like him to be experienced enough to know how to... make love to me. AND I don't want him saying this after we've been married for 10 years. “I never really got to experience other people or see what I was giving up so we should divorce.”

    • If I were you I'd be more worried that he is bringing an STD into the relationship. Than him being an ass and divorcing you after 10 years because he hasn't had enough sexual partners. Plus the best part of waiting until marriage is growing and learning together about your sexual life.

    • Yea... I'd make sure he got tested though.

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  • Always better to wait.