Should sex be expected?

If you’re married or in a relationship, should sex be an unwritten rule?

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  • i would say that you make the rules of your relationship. and that you don't get with a partner who doesn't accept those rules.

  • Yes absolutely!

  • It's not a relationship without sex. No sex, it's just a friendship. That being said, it shouldn't be expected, only if both partners feel like it. Expecting it is a bad habit in my opinion. Should focus more on appreciating the time together rather then expecting sex out of it.

  • We are actually having a hard time with sex right now due to my weight

  • I don't know if I'd call it a rule. But in most marriages it is expected, at least in the beginning.

  • no it should not nothing should be expected other then being yourself , and doing what your wanting to and nothing but.. being married is not only for sex its for love for companionship, understanding, commitment , friendship, trust, and with those I believe that two people that are meant to be together sex will be part of that if the two people are sexual beings. trust me not all are it should come natural for each other.

  • It should always be the woman's choice. A man trying to make an issue of it has no concern for the woman or her needs.

  • If there is trust there should be sex. I learned that with a tough experience. That should be an essential part of any romantic relationship—although, as I discovered: not everyone is ready to build that level of trust. Some do want a relationship, even though they don't want sex, for whatever reason.

  • People who are married or in a relationship with should want to have sex with each other. If one person doesn't want sex then the other might go looking for it somewhere else. If there's some kind of health issue in the way then that is something they are going to have to learn to work past if possible. If one person just doesn't want sex because they are "not in the mood" all the time, then the other is going to feel like there's no attraction left in the relationship (which never ends well).

  • Yes. I chose my wife to be together forever so if she’s not going to give me what I need then that sucks. Which has happened to me she doesn’t give me all I need and now I’m stuck. Partners should do all they can for each other.

  • My boyfriend (soon to be husband) would never force me to have sex but I know he expects it. On the other hand I love him and want to sex with him.

  • I certainly hope so, lol.

  • No context here? Of course it’s expected. So are bjs, giving her head, etc. It’s an act of love

  • Yes. There is a reasonable expectation of sex.

  • If its not , im not in a relationship

  • Well it depends on lots of factors kidd or kids are teens an so sex life isn't always great in some of those cases so you go with what works for you both

    • An who is in your profile photo an is that a tube top or bear chest

  • At a certain point, yes. If you choose to wait for marriage then it should happen after you tie the knot. If bot, then after a certain time in a relationship it should be happening. I won't wait more than 2 years for sex, and I won't propose until 3 years. Also since procreation can't happen with me, it should be for enjoyment only.

  • Absolutely

  • Personally I take sex as pleasure only... Doesn't matter if it's coming from wife or with another girl... Live and let live

  • It shouldn't be expected... but it definitely should take place

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