Should there be resistance when entering a vagina? or is it common to be able to easily slide in without resistance?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

As it so often does, IT DEPENDS - on the girl, and on the circumstances.

So, occasionally I would surprise a girlfriend wasn't expecting me, or a girl I was living with who wasn't necessarily thinking about sex or love or romance - maybe she was thinking about taxes or laundry or what to wear. Slipping a single finger in her could often be difficult.

But take the same girl, who'd been cuddling on the couch with me watching a romantic movie, or that I'd been making out with, and two fingers could slide easily into her. How can this be? It's because vaginas - much like penises - don't have just one state of being. In the most simplified of terms (and in real life, it's more complex), there are two states: aroused and not aroused. When a girl is not aroused, her vagina may be very slightly wet, but usually not enough for proper lubrication, and it isn't engorged with blood, and it's generally going to be pretty closed and tight. When she's aroused, blood rushes to her vulva and she lubricates and her vaginal muscles relax a bit to prepare for penetration.

So it's very difficult to make specific judgements - unlike, say, a penis, which can be measured with a ruler/cloth ruler fairly easily (when aroused/erect, anyway).

[bzcxx]

yes! though the level of resistence depends on the girl and the size of one's penis.
vaginas can be compared to rubber bands - it expands easily and shrinks back to it's original size with no damage.
during penetrative sex, the vaginal canel opens (and accomodates) the penis, resulting in a tight snuggly fit.
if you were to compare the vaginal hole to the size of the average penis, you'd understand that if it weren't "elastic", there's no way the penis could enter without damaging/tearing the vaginal tissues.
with anything that stretches (to accomodate another), there will always be resistance. think: fitting your foot into a smaller shoe.
all girls (and vaginas) are unique - though they have the same parts, some girls have tighter vaginas than others. likewise with the guy, some are blessed with a bigger package, and others, a smaller one.
for purpose of discussion, let's assume we're talking about an average sized penis.
if the penis were to penetrate a tighter vagina, there would be much more resistance than when entering a looser one.
for me, when I penetrate my girlfriend, I do feel some sort of resistance, or a barrier of sorts.
pushing through that "barrier" for the first time during sex can feel exceptionally pleasurable for both the guy and girl.

[Aphrodite801]

That of course definitely on how turned on you are, and how big that guy is. That should be obvious though.

[blank_expression]

Even if the women had kids and is wet aroused, I feel some resistance initially and then some squeeze at her introitus, and then when I reach her cervix, I feel a resistance again there as it moves up out of the way (sometimes it pops—nice feeling) and then I feel her cervix bump pushing down. Non-kid women, more resistance and more squeeze at the introitus while the cervix resistance is less prominent typically—had exceptions.

[JackSmy]

Haven't you ever explored yours? Fingers, and discovering feelings?

[Sweepthelegjonny]

If she isn’t nice and juicy, then there’s gonna be resistance.

[Asker]

So that’s not a sign of looseness?

[Sweepthelegjonny]

Not at all!! Sex is meant to be enjoyed. Only bad sex hurts.

[Asker]

Thank god I read a guy talking about a girl saying she was super lose because of no resistance entering

[Sweepthelegjonny]

That guy probably had a small dick. And a “loose vagina” only comes from having several kids. Even then, a simple procedure can take care of that.

[Aphrodite801]

You sure about that? How are those women who had over 8 kids still having sex without a procedure then?

[Sweepthelegjonny]

I never specified the number of children. And I NEVER said a women with children can’t have sex without surgery.

[Aphrodite801]

The point is they clearly aren’t loose. Like you were trying to say.

[Asker]

Have you slept with someone who’s had kids was it different?

[Sweepthelegjonny]

No Aphrodite801, I didn’t make a single negative statement. You’re clearly projecting. Have your imaginary argument with someone else. I’m not interested and will not respond to any further comments.

[Sweepthelegjonny]

And yes, I have slept with women that had children. There wasn’t any major differences. But with some woman, you can really feel them. Like their vaginas squeezing on your dick. But I’ve never experienced the “throwing a hot dog down a hallway” feeling.

[Aphrodite801]

Projecting about what? 💀tf are you talking about. Mad cause I’m proving you wrong 🤡? Oh well.

[Thalliah]

Having kids doesn’t make ur vagina looser. Actually it’s the lack of sex that can do that. No penis can ever permanently stretch out a vagina, the more u use it the tighter it gets (it is a muscle after all) so a tight vagina means she has sex often. Same with any muscle. Using them often strengthens them. Why do you think kegels can tighten it? Same thing as an orgasm and a lot of different movements during sex.

[Astarlessnightsky]

There is resistance when there wasn't enough foreplay. But when the vagina is wet and aroused it also opens up, and sliding in and out is without resistance.

[slatyb]

If both are aroused and she's pre-menopause, it is.

[Bricealan]

Interesting question. I have only encountered that on probably one occasion, and that was a young, virgin girl (19) and I was late 20's. On a first date she told me she was a virgin, and although I had no reason to doubt her, I did not ask any questions. I did not try penetration on the first date, but instead we had oral sex, first me on her, and she went down on me, I will bypass the details of that. I did not put fingers in her, only my lips on her clitoris.

The next date I tried to penetrate her, and although, there was some resistance, due to her small vagina, and my somewhat thick penis, it did slide in relatively easily ----- up until I reached her hymen. That began a long story that I will not pursue
Enter the present day with the present girlfriend. We tried intercourse in New Years Eve, at my home, She has had two boys, and I believe three marriages, and don't know how long prior to that was her last intercourse. Her vagina was 'tight' on my middle finger and that really set me back, a lot, and additionally I could not get a hard on to continue, so obviously, no penetration.

To more directly answer your direct question, after telling my cousin what happened, she said that even if I had been very hard, it probably would have hurt my penis to penetrate her being that 'tight' - 'Since the opening is tighter than the rest of the vagina" First time I had ever heard that ! So perhaps you are right, there may be more resistance when entering the vagina. I had never noticed it before with other women.

Probably TMI, big time, but I only had those two 'tight' vagina occasions

[Dargil]

Many girls have a touch of vaginismus. It clenches down on first insertion, making it more snug. That passes with experience.

[exitseven]

Usually it's just a little resistance.

[Andres77]

There should never be any resistance.
No means no!

[kellytheman]

If you or her are dry and did it have any foreplay or oral sex yeah there gonna be some resistance you need some kind of lubrication to slide in a vagina easily.

[Wise4myage]

Well, no does mean no, lol.

[Caliguy88]

Depends. Some you gotta work it in. Others just slides right in.

[abc--123]

there's resistance normally

[Seppel]

Depends on If she is a virgin or not

[JesseJayNeak]

There will be some struggle for beginners

[MasterKS]

its depend how much your pussy is wet!

[Anonymous]

I find it often just slips in. I've felt resistance with some petite women even when they are very wet after a lot of foreplay, so lube was always required.