My boyfriend got me really beautiful sexy lingerie as a gift I love it plus he nailed my bra size (32B) bonus points!! But he handed me the gift bag with no heads up and I opened it in front of my son, my neighbor and my brother. Should a guy giving you lingerie as a gift give you a heads up lol
I would think a heads up would be appropriate, or hey open that later when its just us.
No. It should just be given when it's you and him
agreed
I agree. But yeah we could give a heads up if people show up at last min. We all know that can happen at last min.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!These kind of gifts should probably be given in a private setting, to prevent possible embarrassing situations.
But great with the bra size! 🤗
I mean I think that was the point. To tell everyone what kind of present he got you and to show how lucky he was. It’s better to do it in private as a romantic gift but if it is done in front of others it is a flex. He just chose a terrible group to flex in front of… lol!
No I don’t thinks so. He just loves me in little outfits like that. He loves it when I put lingerie and dress up for him And I love showing off for him!!! He’s obsessed with my body and I love it
Lol.
Maybe give it to you in private.
oh, well, we’re all boneheads sometimes.
I suppose seems like a overly sexual relationship though
Agreed...
@DenizLikesTennis I know she always asks these questions but never really wants the answer
Yes, that wasn't very smart of him.
It seems inappropriate and some decorum should have been exercised.
I kinda agree right lol
He probably wouldn't have liked it if you got him a fleshlight and everyone saw.
No just normalise not opening gifts infront of others.
He’s young and inexperienced. He should have thought it out first.
He should have given you the lingerie privately, not in front of other people. Then you could have modeled it for him
Yeah he should maybe plan it ahead maybe give it to you before brad or when you feel turn on and decide to have sex.
One white elephant gift I happen to get was a dildo, so yes exercise caution. LOL
I would recommend it, although it's better than sex toys.
Well he could of presented it when you guys are alone together. it can be embarrassing for your son, brother and the neighbours to see it that way but what is done is done.
should have had a tag on it that said "open later" but it's all good considering he nailed the perfect size
For me it is not a big deal, but I know my partner might not think the same. It's not "wrong", he just lacked the foresight of sensing you might get uncomfortable opening that in front of family.
I would've put something for the family to see and a second box with the lingerie which I would previously let you know not to open in front of them.
yes, if given in front of others... no, if just the two of you in my opinion
In circumstances like your yes but not always
Lol oops
Yes, definitely should.
Yes. The last time I gave a gift like that I said 'don't open it at the dinner table'.
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